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Ken Leung
16-04-2005, 04:55
Hi everyone. I know I said last time that it will be the last post I will do in a very long time. Turns out it is not so easy to stay away after all. Quitting FIRST was so hard that I felt like I needed a 12 steps program to help me through it. But I am making progress. I managed to stay away from most of the Sacramento Regional except Saturday, which I had to visit because Libby Ritchie and team 393 came all the way from Indiana to compete, and I stayed away from Silicon Valley Regional, a much harder task considering it’s been my home base since the beginning.

What prompted me to come back to the Chief Delphi Forum was hearing the news about the Ritchie family. I want to take this chance to say that the Ritchie’s will be in my thoughts all the time, and the best of wishes to all of them during their recoveries…

Anyway, I was browsing around just a little bit after reading about the news, and the more messages I looked at, the more of they grabbed my attention. I looked at the discussions you are having, and noticed there are many questioning and judgment of other people in this program, which is ok as long as you are getting something positive out of the debate/discussion. Problem is, it is very easy to get pulled into them. You may find yourself wanting to question, judge, defend, clarify, explain, argue, support, criticize, agree with, tear apart, correct, shed light on, and put your 2 cents in, but pretty soon, that’s the whole day. It is very easy to focus in the little things and let the days go by, and sooner or later, it’s the entire season again. But let me ask you this: Is this all you want to do with your time in this place?

Pretty soon you are going to head over to Atlanta to compete in the Championship event. To many of you it will be the first time joining the big boys’ league (excuse my language here ;) ), to others it will be re-uniting with past competition comrades, ready to give the champion title another shot. This may very well be the most important experience of your entire life, one that will change your role in this program and your view about the world forever, so, let me ask you again: Is this (the questioning and judgment of others) all you want to do with your time in this program?

There are many problems in this world that are waiting to be solved, needing to be solved, and takes everything humankind have to give to be solved. There are places on earth suffering from nothing short of poverty, hunger, disease, disasters, and wars… And yet next week today you are going to participate in the largest event FIRST has ever created, staffed, built, and prepared by many mentors, volunteers, judges, and referees who are going to give one hundred and ten percent just to make sure you are there to experience it. These are some of the smartest, most dedicated people who could’ve been solving all the problems our society faces today, but instead they chose to be part of this program, motivated only by the mere chance that they might make a difference on the students coming to this competition, expecting absolutely nothing in return.

Why? Because they’ve decided that our generation is more important than anything in the world. They don’t have to be there to help run the Championship event, the sponsors didn’t have to give a dime to fund this program, and FIRST didn’t have to work so hard to build this quality program for our generation of young minds, but they did. And we owe it to all of them to understand at least that much.

It is very easy to focus in the little things like a certain referee’s call, or how many adults/students are working on the machine, or who didn’t win what awards. But pretty soon that’s going to be all 5 days at Atlanta, GA… So, you are going to have a lot of choices to make. How you are going to spend those 5 days at the 2005 Championship event; how you are going to take advantage of this program; and how you are going to accept the unacceptable and broaden your mind to horizons you’ve never even dream about?

It has been suggested that maybe we can tell you how to do all those things, that you listening to us is more important than you thinking for yourself. But we can’t do that. We can’t do that because it is not our place to decide what you want to do with your time, your energy, and your mind. Those decisions are yours and yours alone. Your critical thinking skills is the only tool you have to challenge these questions to their fullest extend, to cut your understanding of yourself into smaller and smaller pieces so you can examine them carefully, to analyze your own thoughts and discovers where your flaws may lie, to look at your own image and acknowledge where your strength really is, and see through the chaos and reach to the bottom of your heart to discover what your passion really is. We the mentors, the teachers, the giants and the fellow human beings can only show you the doors; you have to walk through them yourselves. You have a lot of choices to make, and these choices are yours and yours alone. You are going to have to convince yourself, not us.

But please,

Don’t choose to participate in this competition because you are going to win by being better than teams lesser than you; choose to participate because you are going to win by raising your own bar of standard so high that you are going to meet it at a level you never thought you could possibly achieve!

Don’t choose to participate in discussions because you can beat the others by throwing cheap shots and by lowering everyone to your standard; Choose to participate in a discussion because you are going to be excited by the prospect of looking at new angles you didn’t know you missed, and learning new ideas you didn’t know you lacked!

Don’t choose to respect mentors because they have the least against your action and say things you want to hear; Don’t choose to respect mentors because they let you slip by with lesser standards and lowered moral grounds; Choose to respect mentors because they shares your ideals, your hopes, and your dreams; Choose to respect mentors because they embodies what you need to let you see further than you could ever imagine, and push you higher than the highest you’ve ever flew, so you can aim for the stars and make it there one day!


Because when you have done that, you can go back to New Hampshire, to Massachusetts, to New York, to Pennsylvania, to Florida, to Michigan, to Indiana, to Texas, to Arizona, to California, and reach home after 5 days of tireless competition and countless encounters with strangers; you can look at yourself in mirror with your head held high, and say: This is my choice! And this is what I want to do with my time in this world! I am a participant of the FIRST Robotics Competition, and I HAVE BEEN INSPIRED!

Good luck with the competition, and may you have the most inspiring journey of your life in Atlanta, Georgia!

***The end of Part I***

Cory
16-04-2005, 09:23
Jeez Ken, that's only part one? :ahh:

Don't eat up all of CD's bandwith with those monstrous posts of yours ;)

You truly are a voice of wisdom. I think everybody who visits this site can take a lot from this post (heck, from all your posts).

Thanks for coming back, and good luck with your future endeavors.

Koko Ed
16-04-2005, 10:51
I think what it comes down to is a question of priorities. What are you getting out of this? To many getting that plastic trophy is everything and when they are denied they obviously react. Look at the portal and you can see numerous "best of..." popularity threads and look in numerous sigs in the threads to see the awards listed like a catoaouge.
I would like to see teams proudly list how they expanded FIRST in their community. How they effected their school and community at large. Have a link to their Chairman's Award submission and Woodie Flowers award nominiee. There is so much more to this than just the awards.
Ask not what FIRST can do for you but what you can do for FIRST.

Matt Krass
16-04-2005, 11:20
I knew you'd be back. :)

I missed your posts, they're some of the best reading I get over here.

tiffany34990
16-04-2005, 11:54
if that was part 1 then i can't wait for part 2....he always has the greatest things to say... we all can try to reach for the stars but will we make it in the end.....reading around these forums and talking to some of you i have great faith in our world. we are going to change this world slowly for the better just because of who we are the the values our parents, mentors and FIRST have instilled in us...

happy trails everyone!! good luck to everyone in their lives and do the things you want because it's your life...live, learn and love...

Krystine T.
16-04-2005, 12:15
Thankyou for that Ken! I cant wait to read part 2!

Kims Robot
17-04-2005, 01:50
Ken, so well put.

These days it is easy to get caught up in the craze of it all, the excitement of winning, and the sadness of "losing." But the only real losers are those who have missed out on the true meaning of FIRST. FIRST has grown to immense levels, with so many countries, so many high schools, and so many regionals now. It is a beast that it never was before. It has the power to affect so many now, but yet it makes it that much more difficult for all of us to really figure out what it is about.

Dean & Woody constantly speak of upholding the ideals of the program. Dean even gave his speach at FLR saying similar to what Ken said here... it is no one's fault if you fail but your own. The opportunity is there for all of us to succeed. Every single one of us can "win." Its what we choose that makes it reality. And this is true for students and mentors alike.

It is so amazing and inspiring to see kids who get it, kids who get that its more than just the plastic trophies and gold medals, kids who want to strive for the chairman's award more than they want to win the championship, kids who are excited to go out into their community and spread the word about what FIRST has given them. I am blessed that my "kids" are among this growing crowd. And looking around these forums there are so many out there.

It is easy to get wrapped up in ref's calls, or someone's different opinion in a thread... we all are guilty of it at times, but overall, dont let it be your deciding factor. Ken has put it so beautifully here... reading it I felt like I was listening to one of those amazing speaches that Dean gives. The ones that make you want to run out and do everything you can to be your best. So do that, show everyone your best side... and have fun in Atlanta :)

activemx
17-04-2005, 05:13
Well said ken. Thanks for dropping by. :)

KathieK
17-04-2005, 05:29
Thank you for that reminder - I, too, get caught up in the little frustrations and sometimes forget to see the bigger picture (I'm a detail person!)... But you should have warned us to grab the box of tissues before reading! :)

Arefin Bari
17-04-2005, 17:26
Ken you do still remember the conversation we had right?

Arefin: Ken, you know you won't be able to quit FIRST, why try?
Ken: watch me Arefin, I will.
Arefin: Can't just wait to see you back again so I can just remind you what I am telling you now.
Ken: ok.

... that was our conversation couple months ago, when you didn't believe me that you will be back. Looks like we all have the answer. You can ignore the best thing in your life, FIRST, just like some of us here can't.

Good to have you back man.

Ken Leung
17-04-2005, 21:21
Thank you everyone, thank you for your support :). I can't believe people actually finish these messages I write. I thought most would hit their head to keep themselves from falling asleep, but I guess I am wrong. The truth is, I've never had so much fun writing this kind of messages. To be able to express that 5 seconds of thrill I experience everytime I read, or hear, or see something amazing is a very hard thing to do. I hope I will always maintain the urge to write messages like this as time goes on.

Now, if I only have the slightest clue on how to write the second part. :confused: :rolleyes:

Eugenia Gabrielov
17-04-2005, 21:25
May I advise that you give yourself time to write the next part?

What is most important is that you speak from yourself and from experience. How your job goes, how life with a bit less participation in Regional stuff goes, how whatever goes will all change what you want to impart on people. Just remember, there are a million and one FIRSTers who don't know what you know now. Teach us something cool! Yah!

- Genia

omutton
17-04-2005, 21:42
That was amazing Ken! I read that two times over just to make sure I didn't miss anything.

I want to personally thank you for writing that. That is the type of post these forums needed. I myself can get caught up on the little things without looking at the big picture. That message made me stop and think about why I am in this program and what it really means to me.

Also, you chose a perfect time to post, right before the Championship event. The next week is going to be full of emotion, sometimes good sometimes bad and I hope everyone reads Ken's post so that they too can realize why they got involved in this amazing program and think about what FIRST really means to them.

Thanks again!

Conor Ryan
17-04-2005, 21:48
First off welcome back Ken, yeah you are right about this. A second point about this is (Ken made a ton of great points) Don't forget to have fun. Its why we all signed up in the first place. FIRST wouldn't be what it is today if we didn't have fun, so go ahead be happy.

You could always say FIRST stands for Fun, Inspiration, Respect, Science, and Technology, since all of those are pretty much the commandments of First anyway.

Be Inspired.

Will Hanashiro
18-04-2005, 10:45
Hey there Ken, your posts never cease to amaze me. Thanks for taking your time to write quality, I will take it to heart.

Josh Hambright
18-04-2005, 11:09
Well Ken I thank you for gracing us once again with your presence, and I thank you for sharing your thoughts, always one to point out what many have been thinking and always one to smack us upside the head when we all get out of hand sometimes and remind us of the big picture. Once again thank you for all that you have done for FIRST and for CD over the years, and i look forward to part 2.

Rich Kressly
18-04-2005, 13:03
Ken,

As always your voice is a very important one here. It seems as though we went through the build season in strong fashion, but once the regionals started it became easy to focus on the winning and losing. These thoughts and feelings understandably become magnified when you consider how hard we all work at FIRST activities.

All of the best teachers and coaches I've had in my life constantly stressed the importance of what we are doing beyond the "game" we play. I could list the names here, but the important thing is that ALL competitions, in the end, are really with yourself - striving to be better, raise the bar, play the "perfect" game, doing things the "right way" especially when no one else is looking...

Along this path are many pitfalls. We live in a society (well, those of us in the US anyway) where parents in many communities are forced to sign codes of conduct in order to attend their child's youth baseball games. It's sad, but it's true, that a significant portion (not the majority, but a significant percentage) of our adult population does not know how to behave in public, ESPECIALLY when it's to attend a child's event or competition. The only appropriate word here in my mind is "pathetic". The more people we involve in FIRST through growth, the more we will need to nuture people away from the unfortunate trends we see in society.

I've spent a big chunk of my adult life structuring organized athletic programs for young people. Although I've been competitive and stressed commitment to kids, I'd also like to think I've always thought about how much involvement was appropriate at certain age levels. I'd also like to think I keep the big picture in mind. Does T-Ball really need to begin at Age 6? Does a 9-year-old really need to play a 30 game traveling soccer schedule? If these activities are deemed appropriate and if we are going to spend all of this time, money, and effort in programs that are supposedly for the kids, who's going to keep the big picture in mind for these groups and prevent adults from getting angry with each other for stupid reasons? FIRST is not immune to any of this.

If the adults with all of this involvement and investment in these programs choose to act like jerks, we are in trouble. The basic message is this - Just because you spend a lot of time, money, and effort doing something, that doesn't give you the right to misbehave. In fact, you've got an obligation, because of your position, to provide a role model example for others to follow and you need to take that obligation seriously at all times.

If we (adults, mentors, coaches) aren't here to teach young people the right way to live life through these activities, the kids would be MUCH better off if they would organize their own ball games AND robot building in their own neighborhoods as far away from the adults as possible.

Fortunately, FIRST is filled with postive adult role models who are making a positive difference for the future. The rest of us just need to recognize that, be aware of it at all times, and consciously work at changing the culture instead of allowing the negative elements of popular culture to seep into FIRST.

I told myself that my post was going to be brief. Oops. Thanks Ken.

KenWittlief
18-04-2005, 19:41
Come dance with the west wind
and touch all the mountain tops
sail over the canyons
and up to the stars

Reach for the heavens
hope for the future
all that we can be
not what we are

-J. Denver

This generation, the students reading CD today, will be part of humanitys first attempts to literally reach for the stars. We have the ability to start sending probes out to the nearest star systems, to survey the neighborhood

it will take 40 or fifty years for them to get there, and 4 or 5 years for their signals to come back and report what they find

but I honestly believe the day is not far off when we stop thinking of Mars and jupiter, and really reach for the stars.

FIRST is not a destination, its not the reward, its the slingshot that will launch you from where you are, to where you can be.

Ellery
19-04-2005, 21:36
You da man Ken! I will have to forward this out to my whole team to read.

Thanks for being there for us all!

Ellery

Ken Leung
26-04-2005, 15:04
Thanks for the replies everyone. I want to respond to all your points, and I will, but I've been busy very busy lately trying to finish part II. Just a few more days of polishing and it will be done, so stayed tune!

P.S. This is perhaps the most difficult writing experience I've ever done, but it's tons of fun as well ;-).

Ken Leung
04-05-2005, 11:56
Hi everyone. First of all thank you for those of you who spent the time reading my messages. I understand they are very long, usually longer than you expect to read in this forum, so if you find yourself skimming through it (or skipping entirely), I understand. This forum is already filled with tons and tons of messages everyday as the membership grew, so I don't blame you one bit. The fault is mine as I am still practicing the art of brevity. Some day some where I hope to be write shorter, but for now, just consider me an student learning to write all over again.

Believe it or not, there are points in these messages. It may not seem like it because they are buried in the paragraphs, but they are there. When I was writing Part I of "We aim for the stars", there were 3 primary points I was trying to make:

1. I see so many discussions happening around here of people questioning others about a. The way they participate in this program, b. the way they ran a certain event/made certain call on the field, and the way things are done by FIRST. Those discussions are ok as long as something constructive come out of it, but most of the time they are spent saying exactly that when they turned negative. It is as though the guiding light is missing.

It seems as though we are taking program for granted and forgot that these folks involved in FIRST didn't have to be here in the first place. And we forgot that the adults didn't have to volunteer at the teams at all when we question the way they act. And as soon as the discussions turned into another "you shouldn't be so ***" discussion it quickly goes down a downward spiral, with the merits of the discussion lost in the masses of posts, which could've benefited everyone if the discussion was conducted properly.

2. When we focus all our attentions at calls that were made, things that are done on various teams, or who have what more than we do, it is very easy to let these things take up all our time. Most of the high school students don't get so many years around FIRST. So I think it is very important for people to think about why they are in this program in the first place. Did we participate so we can argue with other people, or are we trying to do something bigger than that? What sort of messages are we sending to the students?

3. From time to time there are messages around here telling students as well as adults how they should act, what they should or shouldn't do. I know, because I've contributed my share to them. But after a while we forget that we can't just tell people how to think. We pretend by ordering them how and what to think, that that will naturally make everyone want to act nice. That's not to say that we shouldn't remind people how to conduct properly, but at the same time, we should remember that we better have ways to demonstrate why people should show respect to others and why they should have an opened mind, which is especially hard to show with the safety and comfort of anonymity on the internet. People are going to have to convince themselves, not us, because that's the only way that ever worked, just like the way you and I chose to respect each other.


I hope that even if you don't necessary agree with my points that at least you can understand where I am coming from. Time and time again I've learned that not only is it ok to be different and think different, but that these differences and the debates that come with them are often beneficial to our society and our way of thinking. "Being different is good", now that's something you don't see every day ;-).

I hoped you enjoyed these messages if you spent time reading them; they are my contribution to this community as I am unable to commit any time and energy to volunteer at actual events or working with teams.

Gene F
04-05-2005, 13:01
Welcome back Ken!

For those of you that skipped over reading all that Ken had to say, go back and read it it is worth the time! He gets it!