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nileshp87 13-02-2012 18:32

Apology
 
Many users have asked me to apologize in a new thread to CD and Buzz.

I do apologize to team Buzz, I never meant to attack your team (in my defense you have a really old looking senior). I did redact the name when someone told me it should not be done...anyways:

Team Buzz, I apologize if my posts have been insulting to you, I have seen you work and know that you do not do anything that would be considered "bad".

Secondly, sorry CD, I will not be apologizing for stating my opinion. Especially when I did not name anyone but Buzz (If you get insulted by ignorance or whatever you want to call what I said, that is your problem). You have killed my reputation, and as I have found by doing research on the forums whenever someone says the things I said they get their rep destroyed.


I will not be replying to this thread, unless a member of Buzz requests me to do so.

Again I apologize to team Buzz, but still, I do not apologize to a website or its members as a whole for not liking my opinion or finding my opinion offensive to them.

fox46 13-02-2012 18:46

Re: Apology
 
For everyone here, it is important to remember that this is the Internet- everyone has an opinion. Just because you have an opinion, doesn't mean you should share it and it definitely doesn't mean it's right!




Please keep your hate'n off Chief Delphi sir....

Andrew Lawrence 13-02-2012 18:57

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Thanks for writing this. It took a lot of guts, and you had to swallow your pride, but it's worth it. I'm glad you wrote this.

I hope you and your team has a great season, and you enjoy your time on CD!

-Andrew

waialua359 13-02-2012 18:58

Re: Apology
 
I think that the only bad decision made here was originally posting a video of Team 175, without getting all of the facts and/or permission prior, using it to get your point across.

Your opinion is a valid concern that you share, for which personally I may not agree with in principal. However, if you ease the tone of your post, perhaps others can chime in and give constructive feedback.

I would only suggest that you share your beliefs without making reference to why the opposite is terrible.

On a personal note as to how our team works together to build a robot, it's not 100% student built.
It's not because our students dont have all the skills/knowledge/experience to make the concepts that THEY themselves came up with come to fruition.
It is our primary goal to have them do as much as they can, but at the same time, make sure that its realistic in meeting the time constraints as well.

Do what works for you folks, respect others for their own beliefs, and have fun competing in FIRST.

Garret 13-02-2012 19:22

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Quote:

This thread isn't an apology. Your post basically boils down to "sorry if you were offended, but that's how I roll". What do you actually, truly, and sincerely regret doing, if anything? All I can garner is you regret assuming Team Buzz was a mentor-built only team, and now think otherwise.

Everyone is entitled to an opinion (perhaps not entitled to say it, but at least to have it...). People have expressed your opinion on Chief Delphi before without consequence other than respectful disagreement and discussion. Your posts have not received the same reaction. If you're reading this, which I'm sure you are... I would encourage you to think about that for awhile.
I apologize for calling this out in particular.

Honestly, I find what you are typing to be far more inflammatory than what I have seen in this apology. Even it is warranted, I think that you should at least try to be better than he was. I do not at all see that as gracious professional.

No offense intended but I think that even if I do disagree with the OP, and I may not fully accept the apology, I should not imply that he is not welcome here, which is what I picked up on in your reply. This is more against the whole forum response than to you.

Once again, I apologize if you are offended but I think that the people on this forum should remain gracious even in response to the opposite.

Chris is me 13-02-2012 20:12

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Garret - you have a valid point. I'll work on what I want to say and try again later.

Katie_UPS 13-02-2012 20:13

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To roughly quote the kind folks of EWCP:

"Although tensions are getting high, keep your GP"

To interpret: Be nice.

Andrew Schreiber 13-02-2012 20:37

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I'm not sure how I feel about this...

Quote:

You have killed my reputation, and as I have found by doing research on the forums whenever someone says the things I said they get their rep destroyed.
OP doesn't understand why what he said was wrong. Most of the people on here are pretty level headed folks, we encourage discussion round these here parts. What we don't encourage is attacks on teams. If a person could come up with a reason for why mentors should not be involved with the design and fabrication process I'm sure it would lead to interesting discussions (as it has numerous in the past). However, these arguments must be done in a logical and thought out fashion that doesn't attack anyone.

For example, a good friend of mine and I had an interesting discussion last night about this very topic. You'd be mildly surprised that the points raised towards having more student involvement were actually quite interesting and led to a very cool discussion.

That's neither here nor there, the point is that we have the freedom to speak our minds but we also have the responsibility to do it respectfully. I may never agree with anything you say but I can respect you if you are able to articulate it in an respectful manner.

And one last thing, while it appears your "reputation" is destroyed... I've gotten negrep more times than you care to know, I like to think it is a decent indicator of how well I am articulating my point. The last time was from someone who asked me why I was such a jerk. At first I was a little mad at them but then I cooled down, read what I posted and I did feel like a jerk. I needed that smack in the face to realize that I was being a jerk. I'm just happy they did it privately.

Daniel_LaFleur 13-02-2012 20:45

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Quote:

Originally Posted by nileshp87 (Post 1125922)
Secondly, sorry CD, I will not be apologizing for stating my opinion. Especially when I did not name anyone but Buzz (If you get insulted by ignorance or whatever you want to call what I said, that is your problem). You have killed my reputation, and as I have found by doing research on the forums whenever someone says the things I said they get their rep destroyed.

I do not see your opinion as the issue (whether I agree with your opinion is a different story). The issue is the way you conveyed your opinion (accusatory).

In life, many times, we need to present an argument that may be unpopular. Doing so without being inflamatory is a worthwhile skillset.

372 lives on 13-02-2012 21:02

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Quote:

Originally Posted by fox46 (Post 1125934)
For everyone here, it is important to remember that this is the Internet- everyone has an opinion. Just because you have an opinion, doesn't mean you should share it and it definitely doesn't mean it's right!




Please keep your hate'n off Chief Delphi sir....

OMG i am not the only one freaking out about this right?

this post is horrible.

that is the worst form i have ever seen.

this fool has locked his right leg which is bad form and very dangerous. his back leg is bent and he has sickle toe... disgusting. we must stop hatin' and find the one in the image to correct his form.

ewww his shoulders aren't level either... bah this just pisses me off.

pyroslev 13-02-2012 21:29

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I think everyone is allowed one tearing into/ranting post on here in their history.

I for one accept the fact of the apology. Just keep in mind every team is different and that one day you yourself will be a mentor if you choose to be.

Good luck and a happy last 8 days of the build. Let's get back to building.

Walter Deitzler 13-02-2012 21:44

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Quote:

Originally Posted by pyroslev (Post 1126047)
Good luck and a happy last 8 days of the build. Let's get back to building.

I wish we could, but St. Louis decided to get slammed woth snow in the last week of build. *Sigh, I guess that is one of the challenges of the season.

nitneylion452 13-02-2012 22:41

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You shouldn't apologize for your opinion, but you should apologize to the mentors whom you said were reliving their high school days by "owning a bunch of students."

JosephC 13-02-2012 22:48

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Quote:

Originally Posted by LedLover96 (Post 1126059)
I wish we could, but St. Louis decided to get slammed woth snow in the last week of build. *Sigh, I guess that is one of the challenges of the season.

Geez, and I thought Michigan was bad. We've been lucky enough to not have a snow day yet this build season.


Quote:

Originally Posted by nitneylion452 (Post 1126100)
You shouldn't apologize for your opinion, but you should apologize to the mentors whom you said were reliving their high school days by "owning a bunch of students."


I agree completely. You're entitled to have your own opinion, however publicly calling people out on that opinion is uncalled for. An apology directed towards the mentors of Buzz in long over due, so even though you said you weren't going to post on this thread anymore, I hope your still reading them.

Good luck on your build season!

BuzzMathias175 13-02-2012 23:01

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No hard feelings, apology accepted...
Maybe I should shave the beard, or wait till after shakedown.
But anyways none of us harbor any hard feelings man, good luck to you guys at scrimmage.
-the "Really old looking senior":)


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