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popnbrown 14-05-2014 19:46

Re: Let's bring CD back to the way it used to be
 
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Originally Posted by Madison (Post 1385332)
What I can do is to share with them how their behavior or language impacts me and empower them to choose to change if they desire.

My takeaway from this is still "...that pointing it out with an explanation is an appropriate thing to do."


Oblarg - as long as you provide an explanation feel free to point it out.


Madison, while your standard may or may not be correct, you should still make the effort to explain to them why you feel their language is offensive or vile, and suggest improvements. While you don't have to, to make this community "not just another internet forum", it's important we self-moderate. This doesn't mean setting a standard but simply to make sure we're aware of each other by being respectful (whatever that may mean).

Tetraman 14-05-2014 20:15

Re: Let's bring CD back to the way it used to be
 
I want to make a statement that I always made on this forum and elsewhere. "There is no such thing as 'un-GP'." I would hope that others will stop using that phrase as (in my opinion) it undermines Gracious Professionalism itself. In many of those videos we older generation individuals watched of Dr. Woodie Flowers discussing the topic, we should be well aware that GP was never "a bar that needs to be reached." An action or spoken word that is good, humble, culture changing and/or worthy to be shared ... is Gracious Professionalism. An action or spoken word that is disingenuous, unfair, against the morals of FIRST and/or the way things have always been ... is disingenuous, unfair, against the ideals of FIRST and/or the way things have always been. Gracious Professionalism promotes what is above and beyond. Everything else is just the way things are.

I am hesitant to call the Chief Delhi Forums as ever being universally bad or universally good. There are threads with encouraging posts discussing good topics and have appropriate levels of conversation. Team support, skill assistance, data crunching, and event commentary are all topics that don't exist in the same way anywhere else for the FIRST programs, and specifically for FRC. And to the same end there are also threads with posts that collectively get chewed-up, ripped-apart and spat-out - appearing as a school of piranha that together swim in peace and unity until a poor soul starts to bleed.

This forum is a collection of threads. Threads are a series of posts. And posts are created by individuals. It is really then on you and I to improve the quality of our own posts. When we do this, the threads will be improved. And when all of the threads are filled with clear, effective and insightful dialogue and commentary, we will then have our great forum. Let us promote insightful dialogue in the same way we should be promoting Gracious Professionalism: When there is effective dialogue and manner of speaking we should point to it, respond in kind, and promote it as our high standard - even if we disagree with the topic expressed. When there is a post of bad grammar and spelling, with untrue remarks or aggression we should respond with our effective dialogue or ignore it. It doesn't matter if our effective dialogue points out the flaws or not - what's important is if it's the effective dialogue we should be striving for.

However, I am not oblivious to reality. I realize that these goals are idealistic and utopian. I myself have made plenty of mistakes in tone and substance while on this forum. Some even created heated arguments and dissent. This post may be one as well. I'm just of the opinion that nothing will be gained from having a conversation on what is or isn't the right way to empress ourselves in a conversation - at least for the moment. What will make things better now is if we all just step back from our posts and realize that words make waves and we need to be aware of how tall our waves are.

I'm reminded by the basic concept of Qualification matches: "Your opponent in one match may be your ally in another". We should all be aware that those that have poor spelling or opposing viewpoints are also allies in making FIRST the best program in the world and making our world into the best it can be.

The Chief Delhi Forums are known for being an effective tool for FIRST students and mentors to share their ideas and connect us in ways other social interactions fail to do. It's also known as a haven of snobby grumps and the old guard that's impossible to present an alternate opinion to. I think that this forum can grow for the better if everyone starts to present themselves in the same way as everyone wants to be perceived as.

MooreteP 15-05-2014 06:41

Re: Let's bring CD back to the way it used to be
 
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Originally Posted by Tetraman (Post 1385355)
I'm reminded by the basic concept of Qualification matches: "Your opponent in one match may be your ally in another". We should all be aware that those that have poor spelling or opposing viewpoints are also allies in making FIRST the best program in the world and making our world into the best it can be.

Yay.

Taylor 15-05-2014 08:34

Re: Let's bring CD back to the way it used to be
 
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Originally Posted by Andrew Schreiber (Post 1385281)
I'd rather have folks learn WHY something is not acceptable than merely the fact that it is. There's no lack of condemnation, merely a lateral approach that address the core issue.


Play a little thought experiment with me:


Me: I hate 1337

You: Thats not GP, you shouldn't say that here. *neg rep*

Me (to my friends): I hate 1337

OR

Me: I hate 1337

You: Why?

Me: Because they are mentor built and their students don't learn anything. And my students get discouraged because they always lose to them and it's not fair

You: [rational explanation on why that line of thinking is flawed and how I should use them as a role model, something to strive to BE not to BEAT]

Me: Oh. I hadn't looked at it that way.

Which exchange has more value? The former was using GP as a bandaid to treat the symptom (emotion based on misunderstanding) vs the actual problem (misunderstanding).

Now, come at it from the perspective of a member of 1337, all they'd see is "All these people hate us and are only not saying it because it's not GP". Not cool.

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Originally Posted by Oblarg (Post 1385285)
In my estimation, the second scenario is rather contrived and unlikely ("you can't reason someone out of a position they didn't arrive at by reasoning"), and the far more likely course of events is a protracted debate with further use of uncivil tone.

I've had exactly that conversation, dozens of times over the past few years, with members of my team, members of other teams, and people previously unaffiliated with coopetitive robotics. It is a powerful and necessary discussion to have, and I'm glad some of my forebears had that discussion with me several years ago.

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Originally Posted by Madison (Post 1385308)
Most people answering technical questions have little to no idea what they're talking about and would probably do the community a service by keeping quiet. When a chorus of misinformation piles into a thread, the folks that do know their stuff have to answer the original question and debunk all of the bad science that gets thrown around. The burden on the subject matter experts, in that regard, is much higher.

^THIS^
A judicious application of the above statement would solve a vast majority of the misunderstandings on this forum. I've noticed a BUNCH of threads lately where the OP says "I'm looking for data regarding X, if you've dealt with X please give me data", followed by pages of some version of "I've never actually done X but I've seen grainy webcasts where I think it was used and it's horrible" or "The parent of somebody on my team says this other mentor says X is bad so don't ever do it"
Those types of responses have NO PLACE in this forum, and to me, are more damaging than "I hate 2013*" posts.
*I don't hate 2013. It was a pretty good year, actually. And the team seems quite nice, even if they are Canadian.

pfreivald 15-05-2014 08:43

Re: Let's bring CD back to the way it used to be
 
The closer CD comes to being a "Wiki Answers" for FIRST-related technical questions, the worse it will be. ;)

DonRotolo 15-05-2014 23:06

Re: Let's bring CD back to the way it used to be
 
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Originally Posted by fox46 (Post 1385245)
I used the word "hate" because it is the antonym of "love"

In my opinion the antonym of "Love" is "Indifference", not "Hate".
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Originally Posted by fox46 (Post 1385265)
And to be clear, I do not hate any team, especially my own!

Yep, got it.
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Originally Posted by Madison (Post 1385324)
If you're asking me, specifically, I believe that we should judge the value of the idea, not its presentation.

All those hours going to a presentation skills class, wasted!
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Originally Posted by Tetraman (Post 1385355)
When there is a post of bad grammar and spelling, with untrue remarks or aggression we should respond with our effective dialogue or ignore it.

It is not a bad thing to correct someone's mis-use of facts (which includes spelling and grammar, as well as physics). It is a bad thing to demean them. However, sometimes people read emotion into words that isn't really there.

As several have noted, clean writing is a valuable skill.
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Originally Posted by Tetraman (Post 1385355)
It's also known as a haven of snobby grumps and the old guard that's impossible to present an alternate opinion to.

It is important to note that someone's feelings cannot be wrong.

However, opinions can be in ignorance of facts, and therefore wrong. You will never change my opinion that the Earth will continue to revolve around the sun for the next 12 years, I don't care which Greek arguments you try. And if you assert to me an opinion that one generally does not need an engineering degree to be an engineer, I will dispute that. If, in your opinion, static friction force depends upon surface area, that too will be disputed. And so on.

A wrong answer is worse than no answer.


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