Re: Civil debates and dissenting opinions
 

Thank you for your response. It a perspective that is different than my own, since I don't visit anywhere other than CD. I don't have a Facebook, twitter, etc.. account and really can't relate to any type of cyber-bullying in those arenas. I do check CD fairly often, but don't post regularly... outside of this week for some reason. So, I haven't experienced any of the issues that were mentioned as being feared. My personal preference is to not be confrontational on purpose and try to work things out a little more civily. But, I'm sure I could be pushed over an edge and get emotional if nudged enough.

The CD commmunity is an interesting one, since some people are raised up to levels way beyond what they even want without even doing anything. I can't imagine what it would be like to be Karthik, JVN, or Libby Kamen walking around a FIRST event.

People come up to me and ask if I am "the" Adam Freeman from 67"... or tell someone else that it's me. I have no idea what they are expecting of me. I haven't done anything special. I participated on my team, helped them succeed, and communicated some of our information to the FIRST community. Most of the time I'm so over my head with something going on with the robot or my drive team that just say "hey" and must come off as a gigantic jerk. Not meaning to do that...but I'm not sure what the expectation is. On this forum, I would not expect anyone to be intimidated by me or my knowledge of anything. Most of the time I'm learning something new on here... not spouting out my knowledge of something. I would definitely not put myself in the "strategy genius" category, by the way.

I guess I would just say that everyone was over reacting to a sensitive topic, and it's probably best that the thread was at least locked to save everyone from themselves and others piling on. Personally, last I saw the thread yesterday afternoon, it didn't seem that bad. But it was gone by the time I checked for it again. I wasn't even sure if it was a specific thread or part of one of the other threads on the topic.

It's possible some of the people involved in the discussion were given special treatment by having the thread closed, to save them from damaging their reputation. But, it's not like you can't ask for a post you regret to be removed to save your own reputation. I think in this case they just might have had a friend looking out for their best interests and to eliminate an issue before it escalated any more.

The best way to approach one of these respected mentors with a difference of opinion is to do exactly what you did. Take the time to explain yourself, and try to understand the other view point enough to know when you might be offending them to a level of disrespect.

As far as the blacklist goes, I don't personally have one. And if I did, it would not be based on what happens on CD. There are teams I prefer to work with and team I prefer not to work with from a coach/team perspective, but that only goes so far. In my mind everything comes down to performance. Usually the differences that would lead to these preferences are eliminated once you get to work closely with a team. It's one of the greatest things about FRC... you get to work with virtually every team if you stay involved long enough.

Re: Civil debates and dissenting opinions
 

This is the reason for the original post, and what the topic was of the original, now deleted, thread. My fear is not really of physical issues, it is more along the lines of social media issues and 'blacklisting' at competitions. I was involved in an email chain with the moderator trying to explain my rationale for posting anonymously, and when I asked how I could bring these issues up without fear of reprisal, I was told, that I could not, and that if I was afraid then I should not be posting. This is why I think I need to continue to post anonymously for the time being. So, any time anyone feels slightly uneasy about posting on something, the clear message is: Be quiet and live with the issue. I am really sad this is the message that seems to be sent here.

Re: Civil debates and dissenting opinions
 

I have rallied against the bullying and groupthink that happens on Chief Delphi, both publicly and in private messages. The free expression of ideas without fear is important to having a healthy community. It's something I will continue to push for and an issue where I will continue to privately challenge those who stand in it's way.

However, holders of the minority opinion are not the only ones who can be bullied. It was not the "FIRST Royalty" who were bullying yesterday. When you strip away the context of their remarks, you lose what really happened. Openly questioning the accomplishments of teams and the integrity of mentors is bullying. The flagrant disrespect exhibited on a public forum is what led to their emotionally charged responses. The "threats" (which are being completely overblown) and "tactics" were not the result of a civil debate, but rather a response to attacks on their teams' (and students') achievements and their own character. Nobody is proud of what transpired. Everyone should have the ability to share their opinion, but that doesn't mean you're allowed to bully others without fear of confrontation. And that's exactly what happened. It was the "FIRST Royalty" (and their students) that was bullied, and they pushed back.

I'm glad that individuals expressed what their fears where, because I was honestly at a loss for what reprisals they were expecting. The individual who fears physical retribution is shocking to me. In the excess of a decade I have been in this program, I have never experienced or witnessed a physical confrontation at a FIRST event. Not even once. To "ScaredSilly," you have nothing to fear. The post you made yesterday would not have earned you any "blacklisting," nor would any of those you have made sense. I'm not so naïve that I don't think "blacklists" don't exist, but I also know there's no shadowy cabal of mentors who are going to get you banned from pick lists everywhere. I know that there are inter-team politics that can cause harsh relationships between teams, but that usually extends far beyond what is said on Chief Delphi. There are offenses far greater than what has been conducted on CD this week that have blown over quickly. Teams and individuals move on, and frequently mend fences later on.

If you conduct your business respectfully and tactfully, you have nothing to fear. If you're going to challenge an individual or team, then you should not be permitted to hide behind an anonymous account.

It violated the anonymity rules of the forum. That is a valid reason.

Re: Civil debates and dissenting opinions
 

Thanks, Sean.

True, and I started to add something along the lines of the leniency of that rule given to so many current anonymous posters, before I submitted my post.

Based on the current trend towards anonymous accounts, I had no reason to believe another anonymous poster was not allowed to create, and post in, a thread.

But, you are absolutely correct.

Jane