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SwordSerenity 06-02-2003 11:36

sometimes its cool to just kiss, thats is a very romantic thing any two people can do

EddieMcD 06-02-2003 15:38

Even a peck on the cheek can mean something if done at the right time.

MRL180YTL2002 06-02-2003 20:37

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Originally posted by EddieMcD
Even a peck on the cheek can mean something if done at the right time.
Just make sure your breath doesn't stink. And a peck on the cheek every so often really does show that you care about him or her.

purpledaisy 06-02-2003 22:38

personally, i'm a very commitment oriented person, so i don't hold with the "just make out" theory. i also didn't let my current boyfriend so much as kiss my cheek until we were officially going out. I give hugs to friends, and close guy friends are (if they want) allowed to kiss my hand or something. I know that's not the way most people are, and i'm not saying everyone should do it, but it's the way that works for me, and I'm putting it out there as an alternative. I didn't get my first real kiss until I was 17, nor did I have my first real boyfriend until then. I'm almost 18 (26 days left, but who's counting?), so it's not like I've been around much. I was the team prude (and team flirt, someone explain THAT to me!!), and I guess I haven't changed that much. I only kiss one person (mark), and unless we break up and I get together with someone else, that's how it's going to stay. If we weren't committed, I wouldn't kiss.

However, back on topic - a kiss on the cheek or hand can send a thrill up my spine. It's SO sweet. In my mind, it's the little things that count, like a kiss or hug on a bad day, walking hand-in-hand, a whispered "I love you", a phone call when you're feeling under the weather. *sigh* and of course, flowers.

Firewolf 06-02-2003 22:46

"Intimacy,n. A relation into which fools are providentially drawn for their mutual destruction
...
Kiss,n. A word invented by the poets as a rhyme for "bliss." It is supposed to signify, in a general way, some kind of rite or ceremony apperaining to a good understanding; but the manner of its performance is unknown to this lexicographer."

~Ambrose Bierce
The Devil's Dictionary
(nothing satanic, just satire)

haha, and people wonder why I love this guy

cheer up people,
its not all that important:yikes: :D :p ;)

Biggs717 06-02-2003 22:48

Call me crazy...but to me romantic is just hanging out in comfy clothes renting a movie and ordering pizza and cuddling on the couch...thats my kind of date! Everyone once and a while getting dressed up and going out is fun! But I'm a pretty simple girl!

tatsak42 07-02-2003 02:35

Yah, looking for it never helps, it usually comes when you don't expect it, aren't looking for it, or when you don't want it (eh, the last one's not as good). And as for me, I'm pathetic :P Didn't ever have enough confidence or whatever to try. And yah, watching a movie on a couch (the movie's playing on the tv, not on the couch) is very nice... (ya know, I realized I can't really say very much :P)

EddieMcD 07-02-2003 13:13

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Originally posted by purpledaisy
personally, i'm a very commitment oriented person, so i don't hold with the "just make out" theory. i also didn't let my current boyfriend so much as kiss my cheek until we were officially going out. I give hugs to friends, and close guy friends are (if they want) allowed to kiss my hand or something. I know that's not the way most people are, and i'm not saying everyone should do it, but it's the way that works for me, and I'm putting it out there as an alternative. I didn't get my first real kiss until I was 17, nor did I have my first real boyfriend until then. I'm almost 18 (26 days left, but who's counting?), so it's not like I've been around much. I was the team prude (and team flirt, someone explain THAT to me!!), and I guess I haven't changed that much. I only kiss one person (mark), and unless we break up and I get together with someone else, that's how it's going to stay. If we weren't committed, I wouldn't kiss.

However, back on topic - a kiss on the cheek or hand can send a thrill up my spine. It's SO sweet. In my mind, it's the little things that count, like a kiss or hug on a bad day, walking hand-in-hand, a whispered "I love you", a phone call when you're feeling under the weather. *sigh* and of course, flowers.

Ahh... the hug. Something we've neglected to mention in this thread. I'd personally give a hug to a girl I knew but don't see often (generaly FIRST people, as I only get to see some people once a year, sometimes less). It's not meant to be intimate, just very friendly.

MRL180YTL2002 07-02-2003 20:06

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Originally posted by EddieMcD
Ahh... the hug. Something we've neglected to mention in this thread. I'd personally give a hug to a girl I knew but don't see often (generaly FIRST people, as I only get to see some people once a year, sometimes less). It's not meant to be intimate, just very friendly.
I must agree with you on that. I do the same with my friends....some which after July 16, 2002 (The International Summit of Young Technology Leaders - renamed Nationals Leadership Youth Form on Technology) I never saw or will see again....talk yes but see it would be by chance. The hug, definately give them especially to a few friends I see twice a year. Its a sign that well, you care about them as friends, will and still do. However my question is....have any of you done that in front of your aignificant other (if you have one) or someone you really liked? I've done that...Pamela did not mind me giving a hug to her best friend Savanna. But some people are different. :confused:

Its the little things that make a friendship work as well as any more involved relationship with somebody.

E Jones 234 07-02-2003 23:58

dating... i have only one thing to say...
 
Dating... where did it come from? Medieval days when the torture chambers were full. I can see a round-bellied king pounding his staff on the castle floor to sentence some poor trouble-maker to the dungeon-- but suddenly a court aid, wearing puffy sleeves and leotards, whispers in the king's ear, "Dungeons are full, Sire." The king would and bluster for a few seconds and then he'd stop-- a light bulb going off in his head. (ok, a candle in those days:D) But an idea nonetheless. He'd whisper back to the aide, then gather his advisors together and they'd all giggle at the deliciously evil scheme the king had just hatched. The king would dismiss his yes-men, who would scurry to their places along the red carpet. Then the king wuld clear his throat. "I sentence you..." he would boom slowly, "to spend five years... DATING!" From that day forward, dating was somethign inflicted mostly upon unruly teenagers who typically sneered at the royals. In time, all teenagers fell victim to the practice, and within 2 or 3 centuries, society had convinced itself that dating was in fact necessary, an essential step to marriage.

chellyzee93 08-02-2003 00:30

sometimes it's nice just to play, nothing physical really... just having fun with other. Run around, play tag, box, tickle each other i promise you'll have fun. Then when you're done some cuddling is a nice way to end the fun and rest. Being comfortable with each other is extremely important so that you can be your self, so that they like you for the real you :)

Ricky Q. 08-02-2003 01:47

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Originally posted by chellyzee93
sometimes it's nice just to play, nothing physical really... just having fun with other. Run around, play tag, box, tickle each other i promise you'll have fun. Then when you're done some cuddling is a nice way to end the fun and rest. Being comfortable with each other is extremely important so that you can be your self, so that they like you for the real you :)
Except when you get kicked and/or punched in the nose :p

Firewolf 08-02-2003 08:06

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Originally posted by Ricky Q.
Except when you get kicked and/or punched in the nose :p
what are you talking about!
That's still romantic!
... Isn't it...?

haha
"I had so much fun, my nose started to bleed
And I knew it was love when I couldn't see
you punched me in the face
you punched me in the face"

haha, hey thanks for the lyric inspiration -- now I just have to write the rest of that song...:yikes:

MRL180YTL2002 08-02-2003 21:31

....is it romantic??? Not really unless you're playing around. Most kicks and punches are generally a dirty (sorry but girls do fight dirty, clawing and biting you.....at least in the ones I've seen).

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Originally posted by chellyzee93
sometimes it's nice just to play, nothing physical really... just having fun with other. Run around, play tag, box, tickle each other i promise you'll have fun. Then when you're done some cuddling is a nice way to end the fun and rest. Being comfortable with each other is extremely important so that you can be your self, so that they like you for the real you
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but that is so true.

Firewolf 09-02-2003 18:58

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Originally posted by MRL180YTL2002
....is it romantic??? Not really unless you're playing around. Most kicks and punches are generally a dirty (sorry but girls do fight dirty, clawing and biting you.....at least in the ones I've seen).

yeah, well, if a girl starts fighting dirty - that means YOU'RE doing something wrong apprantly she doesn't want anything to do w/ you (or atleast at that point)

clear out boy or clean up your act


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