Therefore avoid fights!!!! Like I said before why worry about making up from fighting when you could have been making out, go out, etc... in the first place. Sometimes its a problem that has dragged on for a while and the powder keg just blew. One misinterpreted act, move, etc... can end relationships.

a true relationship wont end over a fight, there must be an initial reason to be apart if you fight over something. true someone may have done something inappropriate but put yourself in their shoes, sometimes that can help. cheating ehh thats a good reason to go, but little things like not being able to talk for a little while, shouldnt hurt someone if you truly care

actually fighting is a normal and healthy part of the relationship if it isnt going on all the time. if you agree with somebody ALL the time something is likely wrong, although not always.

Sorry for posting this, as it seems odd its a comment this far past the prom comments, BUT

Heh, robot to prom...now THAT sounds like a good idea. Let's see...Im a sophomore, so I've got one or two years to figure out how to get this to work....

...and hey, those that called yourselves the L word, don't worry, you're not alone....This year Alone I've posted over 150 posts in the 6 week period.

...Maybe that should be an option in the profile...

Loser?
~Yes
~No

Ehhh..I should stay away from this side of the Chit-Chat bar, I juss end up posting meaningless things of depression...sorry...I'll go back to the animation forums (yeah...I'm not even one of the people that are assigned to work on the robot usually [Hoping that will change drastically next year]...I went to work on it the other day and they sent me home to work on the animation... :o Oh well, it's gotta get done...)

true...but you better not be fighting all the time too. A fight or minor disagreement is fine but when violence comes into play is a different story.

i know my b/f and I play fight all the time... its fun...
never violence except i know a friend that enjoyed a violence in a her relationship...but it was playful...

playful is okay....but when blood is drawn is not very good. Injury is bad, very bad, it can be considered abuse. So watch it. Fighting occasionally should be considered in a relationship. You cannot agree on everything.

i have never really fought in many of my relationships (then again i havent had many) but i can agree it can eb healthy, it does make bounds. but as for fighting for a relatioship to be healthy, i cant say i agree there...

Let me clarify......if you're fighting all the time over various issues its bad. A disagreement here and there is good as you learn (the hard way) what makes someone ticked off. its heathly as you increase your knowledge of the other person and sometimes yes at the moment weakens a relationship but in the long run over coming a bad time makes it even stronger.

purpledaisy I think you summed up that one!

yea I agree with purpledaisy too!...arguements make a relationship grow...just as long as they aren't happening every day...I had that happen with my ex boyfriend and it was not fun! but I'll never forget after our first real arguement how bad we both felt and then we talked about it and worked everything out...sometimes you just have to let everything out before you can talk about it! the healthy part is being able to sit down after it happens...however long the wait is up to you...and just talk...we're all human and we'll all get mad and say things we don't mean...everyone does it! but being able to talk things through afterwards to me is very important!

Yeah, whereas I can't speak from a first hand basis (not in/had a relationship....) I've seen soo many friends get so mad at each other when they've tried for a long time to not fight. They let it build up within them without letting it out until the end, where the big fight comes out. Smaller little fights are healthy, but that last one is the one that kills the relationship.

...but then again, what do I know? These are simply observations from a 3rd person point of view..

you can see things pritty clearly from a 3rd person pov b/c ur mind
isn't clouded by all thats going around

o yeah, those few lines of a song i wrote was a mockery,
i simply like to write silly song

***i do not endorse fights in relationships

heh, yeah...I'm just saying that maybe theres something I dont see from a 3rd person pov. But yeah...things that are obvious to me can be the thing that they're most blinded by...