Nah, you dont hafta be going out to take a girl out to a movie or something. Actually, thats overall the best method you can choose, cause theres no commitment. Too bad most of the girls out there want commitment :-/

going out to dinner or the movies does not require commitment, nor do most girls think that when you take them out one night that you should be committed
maybe you just haven't found the right girl.... keep looking

Girls always have an excuse not to go if I ask them to a movie or something (as friends...) Buah. Every time.

darn..
 

You guys are taking me all wrong, and I guess I didn't explain myself well.. Ok.. when I said all guys are superficial, I was speaking to the overall population.. (come on.. When you first meet a girl, do you see her for who she is inside, or what she looks like OUTSIDE) but I am not substaining from the idea that girls aren't either.. heck knows alot of girls are too.. while this is a bit disturbing that you guys haven't had dates, I still maintain that a lot of it is your fault.. Looking at some of your pictures, I don't see why any of you have trouble getting them.. welp.. good luck you guys..
;)

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Its funny becuase while you're saying people shouldn't make superficial judgements, you just did. Oh well, just had to point out the irony.

Hey, "Da Grand Master Pimp" is speaking from experience...

"There are plenty of fish in the sea..."

Right now I'm not looking due to me going to chichago in a few months, but most of your high school stuff is just for show-boat. Shure, one out of 1,000 will marry their high-school sweet heart, but how often does that happen? Not too often.

I couldn't agree more with that, Dave_222. Most of today's high school people are just wanting to go out with the "hotter chicks" when all it is just a status thing. Sorry for my rant, I kinda know this since i am the "Sexiest man in my town (Melvindale)" :yikes: :p

True, Pamela and I have gone to homecoming and out to the movies but we aren't dating. We've agreed not to really go out as in dating but rather staying as friends.

thanks for the nice comment about our pictures.


its too bad i got dumped


bad

What i meant more or less was that to get a date with a girl (at least in south florida) usually means you hafta be going out & stuff (commitment). On occasion you can go out a date or something without needing commitment, but its rare.

I know. Pamela is a friend that's a girl. To me she's a girlfriend but if you say girlfriend people automatically think shes the one you're commited to dating.

You know, this thread has been derailed so many times, everyone seems to have forgotten what this was all really about.

Superficiality, dating, committment....bah, no!

This is all about badjokeguy getting dumped.
I'd just like to say that at any age, a breakup can be hard.
I hope you feel better soon.

ouch
 

OK, yes,
1) HS doesn't matter, it is hormones mostly
2) going out doesn't mean relationships, if that was true I'd be pimping w/ 20 guys... (don't tell them this:p )
3) in the word of a comedian:

"Girls don't care about the looks, they could be going out w/ the
ugliest man, and be showing him off to all her friends 'yes, this is the man i love' even if he is buuuutt ugly
but men - man, if they're dating an ugly chick - they keep it on the dl, you know what i mean - its like, 'i love you, but I don't wanna be seen in public or around my friends with you.'

haha, that always makes me laugh, and I'm not saying it's true
but it's funny

but HS stinks - looks matter to many people
- and simply stinks for me
don't let it get you down maturity is what most people need
- i personalty look at the personality, and i get a lot of crud for that
and even if the guy is 'hott' if he's a jerk,he's one of the ugliest men on the earth

keep your spirits up,
and hey, bad jokes guy - nice pick up spot "come here often?"
;) haha!

We are not everything!
 

Girls are not everything! Just enjoy the life you have and don't get mixed up in relationships unless you know it is going to be really worth it! You are still a teen just have fun!!!!

Re: We are not everything!
 

Couldn't have said it better myself Ashes. She's right, party on!

Yeah, but you can still have a relationship as long as you arent kicking yourself and going way out of the way to please the girl, just have some fun with her and keep it good.