Girlfriends
 

hi,
I just recently broke up with my girlfriend, and was wondering if any guy has had the same issue with that.

also, if any of u girls wanna get to know me better, drop me a line.


Bad

The only problem I have with girlfriends is not being able to get one. (17 years girlfriend-free and counting!) Bah. I'm a girl repellant! Woo.

My ex-girlfriend broke up with me twice. It was odd both times because our relationship is far from normal. I don't know what a real break-up is like.

...Maybe it's the sunglasses....just kiddin, I know your pain ( sorta )

oy vey..
 

I quote myself. I am a logical person. I'm working on not being so emotional.

Re: oy vey..
 

This struck a nerve within me - you're saying most guys are able to get girlfriends, but if they don't then it's basically resulting from "superficial crap about how a girl is supposed to look". I didn't have a gf until 9th grade, and I have no views like that. I consider myself nice most of the time, I treat most girls with respect, pending on how I am treated by them. I think that's kind of weak saying how guys are only out for looks, because (at least in my case), that's not true. I know many, many nice guys that aren't necessarily "good looking", and for that reason they don't have a girlfriend. Maybe it's the girls that need to "drop the superficial crap".

My 2 Cents.

I think the superficial crap is, well, superficial. At the end of the day it really means nothing. It isn't who the person really is. Some guys are fake, goodness knows some girls are fake too.

As for breaking up, it is never easy to lose someone that you care about. And, I'm sure you have no real interest in hearing this now, but, as time goes on you will start to feel better.

My last serious relationship ended pretty much 2 years ago, I still think about the girl from time to time, but I don't really "feel" anything anymore. I enjoyed the good times while I had them.

(BTW, I have had 1 "real" gf, and that only happened cause she asked me out.......why can't more girls do that???)

*is lonely these cold winter nights*

Haha. My sister stole my sunglasses. I was installing her speakers and looked over and there was a pair of cheap-o blue glasses that looked exactly like the ones I bought... *yoink* :D


But yeah...isn't being alone rather lonely? (It sucks to know that all girls you have an interest in don't feel the same way...rather depressing) *sigh*

U GuYS ReALly NEed LiVEs If AlL U CAn do Is TaLk About Ur GurLFreIEnd DumPINg U:D

Bah, breaking up at our age is basically nothing. Unless you're sure (and you arent sure if they break up with you) that you're gonna get married or something, you shouldn't worry about it. Too much pressure is put on relationships, just remember its all about having fun (and no, not that way for all you dirty mind people).

Before my 2 cents turns into 200 dollars I am only going to say this most girls are just as superficial as most boys if not more and that dateing in high school is only a status thing.




done.

16 1/2 for me. :)

little over 17 for me despite what people say. They say I have a girlfriend but I really don't.

Read my last post on this page. See here



so I guess I do....hmmm interesting dilemma. My point is whose says you have to have to be dating to take a friend out to the movies, a dance, or whatever.

Nah, you dont hafta be going out to take a girl out to a movie or something. Actually, thats overall the best method you can choose, cause theres no commitment. Too bad most of the girls out there want commitment :-/

going out to dinner or the movies does not require commitment, nor do most girls think that when you take them out one night that you should be committed
maybe you just haven't found the right girl.... keep looking

Girls always have an excuse not to go if I ask them to a movie or something (as friends...) Buah. Every time.

darn..
 

You guys are taking me all wrong, and I guess I didn't explain myself well.. Ok.. when I said all guys are superficial, I was speaking to the overall population.. (come on.. When you first meet a girl, do you see her for who she is inside, or what she looks like OUTSIDE) but I am not substaining from the idea that girls aren't either.. heck knows alot of girls are too.. while this is a bit disturbing that you guys haven't had dates, I still maintain that a lot of it is your fault.. Looking at some of your pictures, I don't see why any of you have trouble getting them.. welp.. good luck you guys..
;)

Re: darn..
 

Its funny becuase while you're saying people shouldn't make superficial judgements, you just did. Oh well, just had to point out the irony.

Hey, "Da Grand Master Pimp" is speaking from experience...

"There are plenty of fish in the sea..."

Right now I'm not looking due to me going to chichago in a few months, but most of your high school stuff is just for show-boat. Shure, one out of 1,000 will marry their high-school sweet heart, but how often does that happen? Not too often.

I couldn't agree more with that, Dave_222. Most of today's high school people are just wanting to go out with the "hotter chicks" when all it is just a status thing. Sorry for my rant, I kinda know this since i am the "Sexiest man in my town (Melvindale)" :yikes: :p

True, Pamela and I have gone to homecoming and out to the movies but we aren't dating. We've agreed not to really go out as in dating but rather staying as friends.

thanks for the nice comment about our pictures.


its too bad i got dumped


bad

What i meant more or less was that to get a date with a girl (at least in south florida) usually means you hafta be going out & stuff (commitment). On occasion you can go out a date or something without needing commitment, but its rare.

I know. Pamela is a friend that's a girl. To me she's a girlfriend but if you say girlfriend people automatically think shes the one you're commited to dating.

You know, this thread has been derailed so many times, everyone seems to have forgotten what this was all really about.

Superficiality, dating, committment....bah, no!

This is all about badjokeguy getting dumped.
I'd just like to say that at any age, a breakup can be hard.
I hope you feel better soon.

ouch
 

OK, yes,
1) HS doesn't matter, it is hormones mostly
2) going out doesn't mean relationships, if that was true I'd be pimping w/ 20 guys... (don't tell them this:p )
3) in the word of a comedian:

"Girls don't care about the looks, they could be going out w/ the
ugliest man, and be showing him off to all her friends 'yes, this is the man i love' even if he is buuuutt ugly
but men - man, if they're dating an ugly chick - they keep it on the dl, you know what i mean - its like, 'i love you, but I don't wanna be seen in public or around my friends with you.'

haha, that always makes me laugh, and I'm not saying it's true
but it's funny

but HS stinks - looks matter to many people
- and simply stinks for me
don't let it get you down maturity is what most people need
- i personalty look at the personality, and i get a lot of crud for that
and even if the guy is 'hott' if he's a jerk,he's one of the ugliest men on the earth

keep your spirits up,
and hey, bad jokes guy - nice pick up spot "come here often?"
;) haha!

We are not everything!
 

Girls are not everything! Just enjoy the life you have and don't get mixed up in relationships unless you know it is going to be really worth it! You are still a teen just have fun!!!!

Re: We are not everything!
 

Couldn't have said it better myself Ashes. She's right, party on!

Yeah, but you can still have a relationship as long as you arent kicking yourself and going way out of the way to please the girl, just have some fun with her and keep it good.

Thanks...
 

I have been thorugh a number of realtionships....yes they are fun but the best part it feeling free. That is why I worry I will never get married! I just love the feeling of knowing I'm single and going out to meet new people...not to date but to jsut get to know! I never think of a guy more than just friends unless he brings it up....I mean if i think that there is something more...then I will not enjoy the fun I am having but worry of what will happen! I jsut keep reminding him we are friends and to never take what we do to be dating! Youh ave to be straight forward...beating around the bush gets you no where!!! But be nice at the same time!!! lol Can't forget that!

Nice pimp hat- still doesn't top our cherished green pimpmaster- check my avatar..

Some girls are superficial.. some boys are..

Depends on the person. Lucky for me that I'm attracted to the kind of guy who is attracted to a "brainy", self- sufficent girl like me.. So it works out.. ;)

You will soon see (At GLR) the pimp hat I have lined up.... Muhahahaha ::Slap::

Anways, like it was said earlier, just enjoy life, and everything will fall in it's place. It's working out like that for me... Eather that, or I'm luckey as heck....

*sigh* im still al alone...



Bad

Don't worry. There's more people out there. You aren't commited to one person so its easier to met others. If a guy or girl is dating someone often they're reluctant to begin good friendship.

i got to agree
 

patrick i got to agree with you that most ladies are looking for a commentment. I honestly can't stand relationships. And take this a professional way but way do ladies got to have a relationship to have sex?:( .

sorry I'm not under standing
 

Are you flat out asking why us women don't have sex unless we are commited? What a low way of thinking....sorry to insult, but why else have sex unless it means something...this pos should prob not be put up but I just think you need to be corrected. Sex is not something you just do in your free time...that is just wrong! You should be commited and have feelings for the person.

ummmmm. So, how about we not talk about this on here. I don't know about anybody else, but I see bad things in the future if this discussion continues.

just curious why
 

I've been around 21 years and had different ladies in and out of my life. 2 out 10 want a relationship before sex. I'm not sayin its wrong,Just why? To me you ain't got to have a commetted relationship to have sex, mabey friends with extra privliges

sorry
 

Yes I do agree just kinda made me mad but i coudl be reading his post all wrong!!! But hey it's a girl thing! lol We are sensative! lol isent that what this thread all boils down to? Us girls are sensative and we are had at making our minds up! I know alot of girls are like that! but that is what makes us so...hum what is the word... exciting! So sorry for those that I have hurt on my last post!!!

I live in the old days
 

I guess I still think those things are something that is special and not a plus of being friends. I'm not saying everyone should be like me nad do as I do...but that is just who I am..I guess

I apologize to
 

i tend to get a little curious at the wrong times during a discussion. I know I should keep my thoughts to myself at times but I have a tendancy to express myself to much.Now is their a lady who wants to get to know badjokes or what does he call himself?he is the one that started this thread!:)

Ok, this thread has gone WAY TOO FAR!

YOU DO UNDERSTAND THAT MINORS COULD BE ON THIS BOARD!!!!

Brandon, PLEASE CLOSE THIS THREAD AND DELETE IT!

(The caps are for emphasis, not yelling)

Edit:

Maybe you could make another thread for discussion of the original topic.

Nah, the thread hasnt gone too far. Sex is a natural action, and most 5 year olds even know what it is these days :rolleyes:

Wait, what is it?:confused: :confused:

Excuse me...I hear more talk of sex and violence, more public displays of affection (making out, kissing) in a school day than in some "R" rated movies!!!! And the majorty of us are minors for your information like me!

Patrick Duffy unfortunately you maybe right on this one...But really think about it...at your age is it worth it? Is it worth the risk of throwing your entire life away because of a moment????

Re: I live in the old days
 

I must agree with my friend here.

I had hoped my 'So, how about we not talk about this on here.' message was obvious enough.

Evidently it was not.