My advice...
 

...don't think about it too much. Find something you like to do, and immerse yourself in it while promoting it. You'll be helping yourself in hunderds of different ways. Thats all, I guess (course, Im not one for good advice, but take it as you will, I just felt like posting).

ive figured out that its something where, if youre looking for it and completely have that quest at youre main focus, you wont find it. then when you stop looking you will. or something like that.

Yeah, being social is a very good thing. I have dated guys a couple of days after I met them, and those usually didn't work out very well. Although, Michael is an exception. But Michael and I broke up and went out quite a few times, but the first time was 2 days after I met him. But, out of any of the other substantial (um, that would be 2 that lasted over a month), I was friends with first. That's always a good way to go. Michael and I were best friends for almost 3 years before we started dating this time, and it's almost 2 years we've been together. :D And the best thing about being friends first, is that if you guys do break up, you can usually stay friends with that person. But that's just my 2 cents.

~Christina ºoº

Okay, I got this email about what love is, and I thought I would share it...

A group of professionals posed the question "What does love
mean?" to a group of 4 - 8 year-olds and the answers they got werebroader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:

"Love is that first feeling you feel before all the bad stuff
gets in the way."

"When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over
and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love."

"When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You know that your name is safe in their mouth."

"Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other."

"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your french fries without making them give you any of theirs."

"Love is what makes you smile when you're tired."

"Love is when my Mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK."

"Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of
kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My
Mommy and daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss."

"Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen."

"When you tell someone something bad about yourself and you're scared they won't love you anymore. But then you get surprised because not only do they still love you, they love you even more."

"Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it
everyday."

"Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still
friends even after they know each other so well."

"During my piano recital, I was on a stage and scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore."

"My Mommy loves me more than anybody. You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night."

"Love is when Mommy gives daddy the best piece of chicken."

"Love is when Mommy sees daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford."

"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day."

"I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones."

"I let my big sister pick on me because my Mom says she only picks on me because she loves me. So I pick on my baby sister because I love her."

"Love cards like Valentine's cards say stuff on them that we'd like to say ourselves, but we wouldn't be caught dead saying."

"When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you."

"Love is when Mommy sees daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross."

"You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget!"

Hehe...I thought it was cute, and suited the threat. :D

~Christina ºoº

awwww... cute
 

That was so adorable, I'm so retyping it pretty then hanging it on my wall ! :)

love?
 

I thought love was that one little comic in the paper? You know the one that always starts with "Love is..." and has something different everyday.

it's prolly just in the local paper, Carolyn, sorry bout that. If I had a couple copies, I would post what they say.
HEY Brandon, do you have some old local papers around your house?

I'm just not big on social events. Usually the most popular event in my area is a monthly dance, and I hate dances. Other than that, there really isn't much else.

Thank you FIRST, for making me partially social. :cool:

Advice...
 

Their should be a love advice forum from now on titled: Ask Carolyn :) , All us socially deprived FIRST people could probably use it ;) , hehhee

Come to Stuart..you'll see what boring is.. *Hands Carolyn Florida map with Stuart highlighted*

~Angela who's lived in Stuart her whole life

Heres one from Tuesday's paper, it says...

Love is...
(picture of two people under an umbrela with roses and hearts falling down around them)
...raining happiness

Stuff like that

thread spaned an off topic discussion

it was split ... find it here

"LOVE IS LIKE HEAVEN, BUT IT HURTS LIKE HELL"