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It's the girls turn now......
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Here's the deal! Us girls have told you the worst pick up lines to use and how to pick us up! But ya know what we don't know anything about you GUYS! So it's YOUR turn! You telll us what's the worst way to pick you up and what you like best! OK! HeHe! Love ya all! Nikki Team 180 SPAM! |
haha this is weird, but anyways, dont ask us stupid questions. No affence, like wheres the main playing field, or wheres the b-room. Trust me, on me it doesn't work. Just come up and say your name, and dont stop talking. I think you all know that not talking kills it period. Too bad I have a gf, but you can still try and pick me up. haha. I'm the one with the hat!!
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the worst: (which means you should nevver do) - have your friend come up beacause your too shy to, we're not going to bite your head off, we are actually quite nice...and please if u stare at someone cuz u think they're cute or whatever and you get caught in the act by the guy...dont be shady and look away real quick....just look because chances are if hes lookin at you he thinks your cute...:)
the best: (please do) just come up be natural and talk ( i like to talk...personally)...i like it when girls talk and have personality...so BE NATURAL.... :) |
Wow, what a rare thing that happens, a girl approaching a guy...
Just aproaching a guy and making a move is enough to impress most guys. The same thing goes for guys as well as girls...you make small talk, assume nothing about the person until you know for sure, and just be nice... |
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But hey, just come up and talk... We're not monsters (contrary to popular beleif)...and we're mostly perfectly happy to talk. |
just ask
I'd like to say I'm the shy type of guy (I know several people who wouldn't believe that). Anyway I meet my current girlfriend through a simple process. Her friend just asked me for my phone number, afterwards she passed it to her friend (my gf) and that's how we met...now that ain't so hard is it?
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ewww....friend to friend to friend....thats sooo....*yuk*
the girl needs to just go for the person she likes ....no friends involved :p |
I think the rule of thumb is that if you're a girl, and you ask a guy, he will say yes.
Now that is not always true...But it holds up most of the time. |
showing that kind of intiative is key...its kinda cute when a girl trys to pick you up....its a GOOD THING..and should happen more often
Why does the guy always have to make the first move? (i like doing it but y is it assumed the guy should make the first move) |
I hate doing it.
If the 'asking out' came down to the girls we would all be better off. 'nuff said. |
I just have to say if it isn't easy for the guys to get the girl maybe they feel the same way about us
Here's a thought.....everyone wear shirts that say single or taken. That way there are no missed signs. |
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Shirts? Nah...How about you just ask us... |
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When I first start talking to a girl that I don't know I will proabably do and/or say some really dumb things, but once I get comfortable I'm allright, I may seem shy at first but after I get to know you I'll never shut up. As for girls coming up to guys, just do it, chances are we're thinking about doing the same thing but we are just stalling.
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How about you temporary tatoo it to your forhead...:D |
Y......Y DO YOU NEED TATOOS WHEN U HAVE A VOICEBOX...just talk..
theres no need to be nervous....the worst that could happen is she says i have a boyfriend(lol) or im not interested but i still doesnt mean you cant have fun and talk to her |
You guys/girls are just weird! Just talk, that's all.. just talk.. hehe
oh wait.. last time I did that I got lost.. nevermind, that's another story... DOH! |
I am actually a very very shy person and i prefer it whe a girl aproches me. the simple fact that she can gather the courage to even talk to me is enough to make me say yes to practically any thing.
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But once I finished reading what you said I relized I had jumped to conclusions... hehehe ;) |
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hmm..how bout you ask how old she is too...thats just what i would do...
what does age matter? **btw shirts, tatoos, and the like is cheating if you ask me:p |
Age makes a difference when you can't tell the difference between the freshmen in high school and the seniors in college.
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it doesnt mattter to a certain extent...thats happens to be one of those cases :)
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I think the most important thing is to be yourself, don't lead him, or anyone, down a false road, that's cruel, and a waste of time.
And don't be afraid to take the intiative! Some of us guys, myself included, and quite timid:eek: when it comes to these things, but when SHE makes the first move, than its much easier, and breaks tension wonderfully. To show that you have the guts to ask a guy, rather the other way around, is very impressive. Don't underestimate the power of the message this demostrates, which is one of both independence, and of..err..kindness? It may not sound major, but this makes a big impression, and if your interested, go for it. He's probably trying to get the courage to ask you. NOTE TO ALL: Being nervous means you care. Caring is good, it means you hope the outcome will be postive. Being nervous is a good thing! Hopefully that wasn't too sentimental. |
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hmmmmm...
As far as being approached by girls the wierdest thing that ever happened to me was when a girl let out a huge belch to get my attention, no joke. The friend thing is pretty popular too.
Anyway as far as picking up guys I hate it when girls send their friends over to tell you that some girl likes you. I personally admire girls that have the "balls" to come talk to me. It doesn't have to be a direct come-on but more of a hey my name is ___ and then just start talkin to the guy, sometimes the direct come on works too. From here I wouldn't suggest making the first move, if the guy is interested he will, well I would anyway. By the way it does make a differnce whether the person is a frosh in HS or a senior in college. It may not make a difference personally but it definitly does legally. |
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Otherwise, Nope =) |
Age matters a bit.
I'd want someone my age, within a year or 2. Otherwise, I don't think it would work out too well (Celine Dion is esceptional, rather than rule) I'd be more worried about emotions more tha anything else, I wouldnt want to be in a relationship in which we would'nt see eye-to-eye, a common problem with an experiance gap. |
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*walks away muttering to self* |
Hey, I wasnt saying anything! But she managed to have a sucessful relationship with..uh...someoner her..uhh...senior..ahem...
Besides, she's from Quebec, now - is that truly a part of Canada? When I was there, they seemed to be pretending to be a part of France:rolleyes: Don't worry, Harry, i'm not one of "them";) (The Corrs have better voices, hahaha!:D ) |
Quebec is wierd...Always remember that. They like getting all the things that they get from the Federal Government, but they don't want to admit that they need Canada...Which they do.
Also, it depends on where in Quebec you are...Places like montreal are mostly english and canadian....Further north you get less and less english and less and less Canadian... As for CD's hubby...He could be her father...lol Picture them in bed and he says 'Celine, I am your father'...Actually don't picture that...It's disgusting. And I gotta say that ANYONE sounds better ;) |
Eww...
You just took years off my life!:eek: :eek: Quebec IS weird. And yes, her voice reminds me of glass shattering, so anyone else's voice would probably be better.) |
Walk up and say Hey.
Now I'm generaly to lazy/apatehtic/already-have-a-girl to approach a girl. That also takes confidence,which I didn't get until I became a senior. 2002! w00tw00t! Anyways, hey. :) Wetzel ~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Hey baby hey baby hey -No Doubt |
To go to the age thing... it really does matter. Trust me, I've been there. My really big problem seems to be I look and/or act like I'm a lot older than I am, which has me mistaken for a 20year old all the time. And dating a 20year old is not all it's cracked up to be. Age does make a huge difference when you're in hs.. I mean not so much when you're like 30 or whatever, but now it does really change things. Interests and maturity levels, and other stuff is different, people say age doesnt matter, but once you experience age difference in a relationship, you see that it really does. Anywayz, that's just my piece.
*hugz to all as alwayz* Ann-Marie -team 783 |
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Except they don't like it when you call them "Candian *insert name here*" At least the boys from 296 didn't... - 'American' Melissa |
Canadians aren't wierd...People from Quebec (who are technically Canadian tho) are quite wierd.
And most Canadians are proud to be Canadians, but they don't like 'Canadian Harrison' for example...It just doesn't fit....It's like being canadian makes u different. Here is the jist of the differences between Canada and the USA (real differences...not like colour and color crap). NONE! The US and Canada are virtually identical. |
We were only joking around with their team cause the boys were cute...they started calling us 'American Melissa or Grace or Miranda' We really like Canada though I swear, at least the guys there (you included Harrison)
The only difference I know of is the 'french' or 'english' schools and the healthcare at least that is what Chris told me... |
YAY ME! lol
Yes we do have french and english schools (thanks to Quebec)... And yea we have the healthcare, and because of that (partly) we pay like 5 times as much tax as americans...The joy of a socialist government....NOT... |
Hey! We may pay a ton more taxes(pay checks and everything else show that!) but free health care has it's bonuses, I mean, think about all the things you'd have to pay for w/o it... I mean, I wouldn't go into the docs for all my sprains etc. if I had to pay all the time, forget it, I'd live thru it!
And Yearbook, you guys may like Canadian guys... but I mean, American guys have their up sides... I can think of a few off the top of my head. I think it's the whole they're from somewhere else thing, and the whole wanting what you can't have... you guilty of that too?? hehe. Anywayz, there are some differences between Canada and the us, not big ones, but they're there and they're important to us. I mean, I don't like the theorm that Canada is a little US(as the Simpsons put it *sigh*) I think we're two different places and the similarities only come into play because we're so close in location, I mean, doesnt the same thing happen in Europe? Ok! I've said my piece and made this way too long. Sorry guys! *hugz to all as alwayz* Ann-Marie -team 783 |
Yes the whole foriegn guy thing is appealing...
Yeah I know Canada is different than the US, now just to convince my Simpson-watching friends that... |
I think there are a few of us here who have the whole international relationship happening...lol
But AM/Judy Health care is NOT free....where do u think all the tax money goes? Besides Cretien's pocket most of it is health care. |
Like who, Harrison?
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I dunno...
*looks around innocently* |
Sure, Harrison, Sure
you stole my *looks around innocently*....:D |
I've been doin it for years :)
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Kinda freaky, eh?
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Yes, Canada does.
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But the taxes are incredible! Even worse than Uncle $am:(
Canada is a nice country. I like Canada - the only problem is, what makes it different from the US? Its not really a "foreign" country, if you think about it, just sort of a neighbor to the USA. ...Except for Quebec:rolleyes:... we all know about Quebec :rolleyes: |
???????huh??????? :confused:
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As for our taxes...%%%% right they are high...and it sux big time. But, they help to pay for health care, education, roads, all sorts of crap. I guess it's the price you pay for living in the best country in the world (so says the UN). :) |
Hmm...how much would a medium sized house cost me?:D
And what the deal with dual citizenship? I like Canada. What I saw was very pretty, the countryside. Then we hit Quebec. The first thing I remember seeing in Quebec was grafiti under a bridge, proclaiming: Revolte! ('revolt' in french, FYI) :rolleyes: what's their problem?? |
Ben - They are bit strange i would say...
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A BIT WIERD? Try A LOT wierd...but anyway...
They are upset because about 200 years ago they were "repressed" by the english. They feel the evil english types are still repressing them (ya, right). |
just to stir up some trouble on the whole canada vs. america theme, heres a pic I saw one time on the net.... :D
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Dan, are you trying to cause more trouble....
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I always thought Santa lived much further North than THAT. If he was that close, I'd pop in for a visit, rather than write him a letter:D
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Also, Canada is quite a bit larger than the states...Contrary to what that map says.
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Hmm...
This map has somewhat of an anti-american slant to it... It also, for some odd reason, reminded me of something: i need an avatar - ill try and get one soon. |
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Well if you ACTUALLY BELIEVE THAT I am more worried than ever about the american education system...
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tuché :D
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So that means that SOME ARE?
Dear god... |
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But usually those are the schools in the not so good areas of towns...and lack of funding... |
Well I shall set the record staright:
Canada is bigger than the USA. Take that education system! |
Suuure it is, Mercador-boy!
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I already knew that though....
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From girls asking guys for romantic advice ---> Canada: larger or smaller than USA??
Just for the record, Canada is larger;) |
Ok. then lets get it back on topic...
Guys - what is the do/dont list for girls.... |
I thought you'd never ask:D
I'll get back to it later today, once i formulate my list....;) |
HERE IT IS:
Ok...Here's the list of does + don'ts. Remembr that all guys, just like gals;) are different, and the these rules may not apply to all of us (just like the holding doors open thing)
Do: 1. Be playful, if he’s playing along (not seriously believing) and its your style 2. Be yourself 3. Ask HIM out *this makes a BIG impression, (along the lines of "I will marry this woman":D ) 4. Become friends first, or at least get to know the guy 5. If you like him, offer a phone number of AIM name 6. Talk about subjects you both like, or are interested in 7. Strike up a conversation to get acquainted 8. Humor and forthrightness is good, but if he's shy, tone it down, 9. Did I mention forthrightness: you want to ask him out: SAY SO, sometimes we can't take hints:( 10. Be kind, courteous, and sweet in personality, and you'll do fine Don’t: 1. Be a tease if he's believing you (rare, but it happens, not to me though;) ) 2. Play any cruel jokes on him 3. Force him to dance if he really hates it (I know this from experience: I only dance if I drop something heavy on my foot, or if I’m at the beach and the sand is very hot) 4. Be…unethical (ahem…ill leave it to the imagination), not good for anyone, isn’t a way to meet Mr. Right, or a real friend, only a way to get in trouble 5. Take his phone number, AIM, whatever, and not get back to him (this is for BOTH sides) 6. Lead him on if you already have a boyfriend 7. Talk about how your 100% for the Women’s Independence movement, throwing off the male oppressors: that makes us afraid 8. BE SHY!! We care! (well, I do at least) Hope this all helps you all out, I've got a question for all you ladies out there, too. Check the massive thread, you can't miss it! :D |
Of that list, the most important point is the DO BE PLAYFUL.
Playfulness, joking around, all that stuff is great. If you can't have fun with each other, you're doomed from the start. |
Yeah harrison, you tell em! Also high up would be the dancing bit, but maybe i'm a exception rather than the rule.
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lol...I can't dance dance...But I am more than happy to slow dance.
BTW, if you're on a beach, and the sand is that hot, walk at the edge of the water :) |
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I'm a playful person, if you haven't already figured that out.... Force guys to dance? Aw...I usually have fun doing that...ok...I'll guess I'll stop it then.... |
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And now, to ruin the mood of this thread again...
Well, back to the Canada vs. the US debate...
Canada: 3,851,788 square miles US: 3,537,441 square miles Yeah, yeah, maybe Canada is a bit bigger, but, er, give us 6 more State of New Yorks, or another Texas and a New York, and we'll beat you guys! :D |
*cough*tangent...*cough*
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Hey, I had to settle that once and for all...
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How come no gals but yearbook have been responding to these posts?
No offense, but stop posting here with irrelevent stuff, and let THEM(gals) ask US(guys) questions:D Not much of a complementary thread for the other 250 reply one if girls don't ask guys questions.:(, or if we don't provide advice. I think they've been quite generous in listening, and providing tips. I suggest we guys to the same:D |
Act as if your grandmother was NOT watching ;) :D
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hmmmm questions eh Ben? ... hmm... K, I know you guys are really into the chick asking, but the fact is, for all my flirtatiousness and outgoingness, when it comes down to it I am so so so shy! So my question to you is, if we really can't bring ourselves to ask... how do we get you to?
I know guys are really dumb and can't take a hint at all(believe me!!!!) but is there something that I can do that you will actually get??? *hugz to all as alwayz* Ann-Marie -team 783 |
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Another girl on this thread... Harrison - works for me... |
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Girls are at perhaps a distinct advantage, in that a direct approach is both uncommon, and impressive. Girls can use direct or unique approaches without embarrassment, since a failed attempt can be considered cute, and intentional. Just go for it. Personally, just show that you have a charming personality, and then go for it. Finding someone special is an important part of life. Without one, (or at least, the hope of one in my case) I don't know how people survive! Take the chance. Believe me, he's probably thinking the same thing, and is probably just as shy as you are. Guys may pretend to be macho, but really, a lot of us (well, at least me) are kittens hiding under the laundry when it comes to initiating a romance. And if she has a boyfriend or whatever, he’ll probably just let it drop, and talk about something else entirely. This reminds me: I'm a post-a-holic, without an avatar or a photo! What do you gals think would b e a better avatar, a picture of an oak tree in a stained glass window, a picture of a meadow in twilight, or a picture of a hillside? I'm kinda leaning towards the oak tree at this point: its a really neat picture, and I like nature stuff, such as long walks in the country, watching the sun setting, gazing up at a full moon, listening the waves lap against the seashore... Uh, where was I?:D |
How about a photo of yourself...I like to know who I'm talking to....but the oak tree would be fine...
Bleh...I have like no confindence is asking guys out on dates...i've been turned down too many times... oh well...at least i try again with another guy after i regain it.... |
i agree with ben ... except that whole 'if he has a boyfriend' thing :) j/k! thought i'd poke a little fun at that typo, oh well :)
but yeah, me personally, you come up and talk to me and flirt with me, then i'll prolly get the hint. i say that now that it's never happened, i wonder what i'll say if it ever does, though :) basically, direct approach = great, and shy but flirting = good well, ladies, it looks like you can't go wrong :D Stephen |
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