Flag Burners
 

Normally I don't post threads like these, but I need go get the opinion of other Americans on this. Some background, I was born in America and still have American citizenship, despite living in Canada for the past 24 years. I am very proud of both my American and Canadian heritage.

Recently I found out that a friend of the girl I'm seeing, is very proud of the fact that he's burned an American flag. He's a Canadian, and he's been bragging about the deed on his website. To me, this is disgusting and I want nothing to do with this guy. The flag is a sacred symbol, and for someone to desecrate it is completely insulting and disrespectful. The girl I'm seeing thinks I'm completely over reacting, and doesn't see a big deal about his actions. I told the girl that I refuse to be cordial to her friend, and as a result she's saying I'm immature.

My question to you as Americans is, am I over reacting? Or am I right to be incensed by his actions?

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I do not think you are overreacting and rather, you are being mature about the subject for standing up for what you believe is right. The burning of the flag is an action that shows hatred in one of the crudest ways and by letting acts like these be accepted in society, we only promote them.

I'm going to get philosophical for a second. Actions, in general, are determined as good or bad by society. If society chooses to accept a certain action, it is "okay" and if society chooses to take action against it, it is discouraged. Your refusing to be cordial to him shows that you don't want to encourage actions like this and this is an action that should NOT be encouraged at ALL. Thus, I feel you are right to be incensed and have the right to outwardly express this.

If i knew anyone who burned a flag of ANY country, I would definitely voice my opinion against it and possibly do what you have done.

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I'm with Neha on this. There is a time, place, and manner for burning American flags. As in, when the flag is too faded or tattered to effectively be a flag anymore, it is to be destroyed in an honorable manner, preferably by burning. But if you do it to show hatred, that is definitely not the time or place or manner. How would he like it if you burned a Canadian flag (don't do it)? He probably wouldn't. Why should you like it if someone burns your country's flag?

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first of all, don't get mad at me, and this is SOLEY my opinion and not my team's.

i feel that you're over-reacting. a flag is nothing more than a peice of colored cloth. it's what the flag SYMBOLIZES that's important. if you'd let me make an analogy, you're acting as if the flag was the berlin wall, when it's really more like the statue of liberty. let me explain:

the berlin wall actually served a physical purpose, namely seperating east and west germany. the tearing down of it not only was symbolic, it also physically allowed people to travel between the two halves of germany.

on the other hand, the statue of liberty is merely symbolic. if we were to tear down the statue of liberty, it would upset people, sure, but it wouldn't destroy the IDEAS and PRINCIPLES that it stands for.

so when he brags about burning the flag, just remind him that even if he burned EVERY american flag (an impossible task), the owners of those flags would still hold the principles in their heart.

on the other hand, you could always remind him that the border between America and Canada isn't nearly secure enough to prevent millions of American Republicans from entering Canada, spreading out, finding him, and shooting him. Dead.

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However, showing hate of anyone's values isn't right. Although you might not be "hurting" anyone, it's the equivalent of spitting in their face. I feel sad for your Canadian friend, that he is proud of it.

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I am personally of the opinion that flag burning is defended by the first amendment, and anybody has the right to do it. I do not like it when people do it, but i think they have the right to.
Were I you, i would strongly express my disapproval of this guy's actions, and if he is still a punk about it, ignore him. By refusing to even pretend to be cordial to him, i do belive you are being immature. "return evil not with evil, but with forgiveness." and all that jazz.
and honestly, if he is making such a big deal out of burning a flag, is he really the kind of guy that would be worth this trouble?

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This is a pretty intense issue. My opinion is close to Neha's, but I have a slight recommendation on how you could handle it a different way.

I don't think it's appropriate to burn a flag, but before being so quick to slam him into a category, you may try speaking to him about this. I realize it means a lot to you, and I respect it, but the best way to resolve this conflict is through education.

Explain to him that you respect he has a personal opinion, but ask him to explain it. I have travelled abroad many times, and I know that in many foreign countries the opinion of America is not as good as people in this country think it is. However, he may have a particular reason for behaving this way, and perhaps if this reason is fixable by another action you could recommend that. As for your lady friend, try to explain how much this means to you.

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A Swastika is only six black lines in a certain orientation. By burning the symbol is in itself a symbol that you wish to "burn" the ideas and tangible assets of what that symbol represents.

Do I think flag burning should be legal? Absolutely.

Do I respect those that burn flags in a dishonorable manor? Not a bit.

If my friend were to burn an American flag, that person would no longer be my friend. To disagree with a country and attempt to change it for the better is an honorable thing to do, but simply saying "I do not like this country so I will symbolize it burning." is horrid.

I do not agree with what you have to say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it.

-Voltaire

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wow Mike! you really nailed it!

Its not the cloth or the colors, its what the flag represents, our country, its history and everyone who lives here. Stand in public and tell the world how much you hate America and you are no friend of mine either.

I had two flags. One was a Nazi submarine flag, about 8 feet long that my father brought home from Germany. He was in Patton's 3rd army, and fought in the battle of the bulge. I inherited it when he died. After having it for a few years I really didn't want it in my home. I hated what it stood for. I hated the crimes what were committed under the Nazi flag. I think it would have been valuable to a collector, and I thought of selling it, but I did not want it to end up in the hands of some neo-nazi as his new prized possession. For the last 18 years it has been rotting at the bottom of a landfill somewhere in Iowa. I threw it out with the trash.

Now I only own one flag. The one that covered by fathers coffin at his funeral. I fly it proudly over my home on July 4th and on memorial day. If anyone tries to burn that flag they will be leaving my house in an ambulance.

(my 3000th post on CD! Cool)

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Karthik,
Yes, the flag is just a symbol. The importance of the symbol is what it represents to the people who hold it high. The flag for me, represents so much. Throughout my life, I have attended ceremonies where the flag symbolism was explained in light of the event. At veteran's gatherings, you will hear that the red stripes represent not only the colonies but the blood that was spilled by the thousands of patriots who died to make us free. The marines at the battle of Tripoli, the sailors in our young navy, the soldiers at Appomattox, the Ardenne, and Guadalcanal. The white stands for the purity of the belief that all men are created equal and have an inalienable right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. The blue field and stars represent the heavens and the right to practice whatever religion you choose. All together, the colors of the flag represent the beliefs, hopes, needs and desires of every man, woman and child who have ever lived. Those that burn the flag of this nation are in effect telling us that they have no respect for those beliefs and they have no respect for me or you. Were I to burn the flag of another nation, I would also be showing that disrespect to the people of that nation. It is not just the flag of the United States that should be held above all others but the flags of all the great nations, as in the parade of flags outside the United Nations.
And for those who will tell you we burn flags everyday, the answer is yes. When a flag has outlived it's ability to be displayed there is a very solemn way to retire it in honor. Those that have attended such an event will never forget the respect and spirituality that surrounds the final end. The flag is reduced from the symbolism mentioned earlier by first disassembling it in silence. Each stripe is removed and burned, one by one, and then the field of blue. Those in attendance remain until all vestige of the flag has turned to ash. The symbolism of the event is a reminder that this is a fragile peace we live in, there are others who wish to steal the freedom from us, take away our rights to happiness and subjugate us.
I applaude you for your conviction.

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I'm all for freedom of speech, its guaranteed under the Constitution of this great country. So I would suspect that flag burning would be a exersize in freedom of speech,... maybe. :confused:

However, nearly all of you have missed one large symbol of this flag except for Ken's last post (and Al's post too). The millions of veterans who paid the ultimate sacrifice defending this country.

I find it ironic that this person thinks things are grevious enough to burn our flag. For nearly 200 years Canada and the US have shared the longest undefended border in the world. Canadian and US military personnel have fought and died side by side several times (and I would expect that this mutual defense will continue for many years to come). So while this person is Canadian and doesn't like some policies being carried out at the moment, he finds it acceptable to dishonor both American and Canadian veterans (as well as UK, Australian, and other British Commonwealth veterans) who have repeatedly allied for mutual defense.

My only response to this person would be to flatly state, "How many of your relatives returned home safely from conflict because of the sacrifice of Americans". There is a real possiblity that this person wouldn't even be here today, if it weren't for the courage and bravery of an American.

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You know this exact discussion occurred among some friends of mine a couple weeks ago. I feel on a personal level that a person can have any ideology they wish, as long as it's not enforced on others. The most important thing is you have your ideals and won't waver on them. Our taboos and moral codes are determined by our society. I have been privileged enough to see many other cultures and their beliefs, the variety and differences between them can be staggering. On the flip side such neutralism is almost an impossibility. We live in a world where people kill each other, and yes burn flags, over their beliefs. I guess the hardest point is where do you draw the line and on what side do you stand on.

Just on a side note, while you detest his action, try and understand his reasons. It won't make the action right (or in my line of thinking wrong either) but by looking at a persons reasons you open yourself to a way of life you might have not been privy to before, thus growing as a person. It takes courage to stand up for your beliefs, it takes wisdom to learn from others beliefs. Ultimately whatever you decide will be the right answer for you. Sorry I can't answer your question in a yes or no form but if I did I would be telling you my beliefs instead of encouraging you to support your own.

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Mike here nailed it. I quoted it for that very reason.

USC seems to be a magnet for certain people of extreme viewpoints. Sometimes religious, sometimes political, sometimes social. Sometimes I agree with them, sometimes I can't stand their views.

The one thing I always notice about such groups is their delivery. I've seen groups stand around with literature or signage and talk in a normal, conversational tone. I've also seen fire-and-brimstone preachers yelling and screaming about the destination of everyone within fifty yards (all in one particular direction, if you catch my drift). The former is generally allowed to stick to whereever they are as long as they're not blocking anything, while the latter tends to get moved to the campus "free speech area" (the patio behind the Russell House student union, if you were curious). As long as it doesn't harm anyone and is at a reasonable time and place, I'm not going to stop you from speaking your peace.

To apply it to flag burning, I'll put it like this: If you burn an American flag around me, you'd better have a VERY good reason why you're doing it. But I'll fight with everything I have to let you have the option.

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I think I agree with the idea that burning the flag represents a wish to destroy what it symbolizes. I believe that by burning a symbol of something, you renounce your belief in what that symbol represents. If they have a real, good reason to do this, then so be it. However, they had better not come to me and tell me that it's their right to free speech to do so, for in my eyes, they just burned away that right. I would also like to wonder why this person, who is, as said, a Canadia citizenn, would burn the flag of a nation he is not resident of. What has he to gain from this? I think he just wants attention, or else he would not be doing this and then flaunting it. The best thing to do with attention seekers is to simply refuse to give them the attention they crave, which you've already decided to do. In my eyes, you've chosen to stand for what you believe in, and thats good. Are you immature for standing up for what you believe to be right? I say no.

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I'll be the first to admit that it's getting late for me, so I didn't read all the replies, but here's my belief.

The flag is very special to America, from the stories of how it was created, to the song and how it was still waving during the battle, to pictures and to giving it to the familes of those who have died fighting for us. Burning the flag is a statement that is VERY harsh and VERY strong, you don't do it lightly nor do you do it for fun, etc. Flag burning says one thing: down with the USA.

Simple as that.

But, if this turns into another flag burning thread, let me post this one thing to support my other belief that means more than the flag, the Constitution. During some stage shows, magicians Penn & Teller would go on a speach about the rights we have as Americans, and how we have the right to march down a street either to promote equality, or to shun it. Then they would symbolize something very important to me, they would wrap the US Constitution in the US Flag and then burn it. In the end, they went through the ashes, and found the Constitution still intact, because in the end the flag is a piece of cloth, and in the end, the Constitution is a piece of paper with words on it declaring the rights and freedoms of it's people, and that is stronger than ANYTHING else.