The most common occurrence of the "get a life" suggestion comes from people who cannot see the value of what occupies your time. They are also unable to formulate a ready explanation or defense for their own activities. Their error, of course, is apparently that they expect you to realize they are more worthwhile and respectable than you simply because they have parroted those three syllables. On the other hand, it
is more polite than the ruffian, two syllable phrase that is unsuitable for mixed company.
That is not to say you should not subject your repertory of activity to scrutiny on a recurring basis, as mentioned above in this thread. Seek advice from those whom you respect. You can almost certainly ignore the envious oafs who try to elevate their own status by belittling yours. Be polite. Avoid using the 1-finger salute in response.
