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Don't put cans down our backs when we're carrying snow...

I don't think that one should just let everything happen to themself, but being overly forceful with attraction is definetly not a good thing. If you're interested, express it, but know your, and the other person's, boundaries.

In my experience, having a lot of very good friends is more valuable than having a volatile relationship with a single person. But I can't say I have the best track record...