[MrForbes]

There's no easy answer. I do all 3, with the goal being that we figure out how to do stuff together, and as they learn more, I do less and less. I consider myself part of the team, and as a team member, I am here to help the team do well, I'm not only a teacher. The way I see it is that if you're doing it right, then it IS a struggle to know just what to do.

Welcome to the club.