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I agree, Amy. Some girls LOVE being hugged and tickled, etc. Some girls HATE it. It depends on the girl, and if you try to date someone before you find things like that out (if they're important to you), that's, bluntly, stupid. don't jump into dating until you know the person well. I set a 1 month waiting period before my current boyfriend could ask me out. Granted, it wasn't just to wait, there were other reasons, but I (and he) am really glad I did that. We know each other alot better than we would have before, and it's helped alot. Now, because we know each other well, and care alot about each other, we can work through the arguements that naturally come up. Also, if she's having a bad day and snaps at you, don't take it too personally. I know that when I do that, I usually end up 5 minutes later practically crying on his shoulder. It is reasonable (I think) to expect an apology, and possibly an explanation, but if she doesn't want to talk about it, don't push (unless you know her well enough to know she needs to talk it out). Anyway, that's just my two cents.
thanks for listening!
Stacia
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