[shuhao]

Both of them are bloated as hell.

Netbeans is a pile of ----. I have not met a single person (online or IRL) who has anything good to say about it. No configurability, it eats ram and CPU like an IDE and acts like a text editor, crappy looking GUI

Eclipse is the lesser of 2 evil. Still very bloated, at least you get options, and the editor actually autocompletes stuff for you.

Ideally I would pick neither, but under the circumstances my vote is with Eclipse