I see a lot of posts that say: I wouldn't do it but I am not going to judge other peoples actions.
I say that we need to judge each other, or at least judge each others actions. We just need to do it in a loving and respectful way.
Looking the other way can be another way to not live up to our full potential as humans.
Now, how to confront other people about things that we observe, that is a very delicate thing. Make sure that you are focused on the action and not on the actor, make sure that you are thinking about helping someone else get to a higher place and not about building yourself up. Make sure that you remember that you have made some pretty questionable calls more recently then you care to admit.
If all else fails listen to Lavery:
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Originally Posted by Lil' Lavery
Would your grandmother be proud of you?
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