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Originally posted by MarkF
I don't understand how some people are willing to have a one night stand and not feel guilty as all hell the next day. Whatever floats your boat, I guess.
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What I meant by casually dating, I guess its bad phrasing and different interpretations is that okay Pamela (on 179) and I are friends. So I asked if she wanted to go to my school's homecoming, the movies.....that's casual dating. Its not a one night stand, its in better words hanging out but Pamela and I aren't friends and we sure aren't dating one another exculsively. She could go with another guy somewhere sure, I don't own her and if we were dating she wouldn't, even then as long as we don't break our promises to one another (stuff like stay in school. don't do drugs...) I'd be fine. She has her friends and I have mine. Its respect for the other, trust in the other, time and effort into a relationship, and mutual agreements on certain issues (at least know how the other one feels) that make things in a relationship, even just a friendship like mine, work. The sad part is two friends go out, break up, and never speak to one another again. Pamela and I don't want that to happen so for now we aren't going to date. We will go on "dates" but we aren't going out, um search for the right word,..... steady. Though we'll probably end up dating someone else due to age and grade differences...see my previous post in this thread but for now I guess in my case Pamelaand I aren't dating yet.