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Originally posted by purpledaisy
yeah, that's another thing... red flags should go up if all your friends don't like him or you can't stand any of his friends. doesn't mean you should dump him cuz of it, just try to find out why. sometimes your friends can see things you can't.
anyways... for me commitment matters. don't play him - if he's worth being around, he'll see through you. and don't cheat. if you, like me, are a hardliner about your boyfriend cheating on you, don't cheat on him. now, sometimes things come up and its a misunderstanding or a game got out of hand or something, and always listen to his side, but if you let him get away with it, he's going to keep doing it.

stacia

note - he and him and boyfriend and other male-gender pronouns and nouns are used merely for clarification. she, her, and other female gender prounouns and nouns can be substituted.

It is also very helpful if your parents and your girlfriends parents like you. That fact makes life easier when they approve. I'm not saying your parents should control your life but if they're the ones controlling the car keys (heck they won't let me drive the 45 minutes to see Pamela down in Palm Beach Gardens) and money (I have no job).