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Originally posted by purpledaisy
i know that when mark told me, i was so shocked i couldn't move for almost 5 full minutes. not because i didn't like him, but because i was surprised. realize that for us sometimes it comes out of the blue, our knee jerk reaction may not be our actual one, so don't give up too soon.
stacia
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Well.....I must admit if my best friend did the knee jerk reaction I did not notice and I would not care because my goal was simply to tell her that not only did I like her but also that I loved her for who she is. I admit during this exchange I when told my best friend Pamela (she's on 179) and I have been friends since 2001 KSC Regionals....
Me: "Pamela, there's something I got to tell you." (hesitates)
Pamela: "What is it Mike?"
Me: (I pause and hesitate) "Somewhere in the middle of all this, I fell in love with you Pam"
Pamela: "Awwe." (and a little stunned)
....I was looking at her straight into her eyes during practically the entire course of the conversation except during my first hesitation because I forgot exactly what I wanted to say.
Even though there are time where we barely talk because we're busy, we both lnow that the other still cares just our lives are crazy as it is. Somehow we've managed to keep a healthy friendship alive. I've never given up hope but when you don't hear from someone it really eats you up on the inside. We could never get angry/mad at one another so we know that not the reason. most ikely its our schedule (which makes it difficult to see one another).