[Mark McLeod]

That looks like you have your Ethernet port is set correctly to 10.35.97.5 and is cabled directly to the cRIO (that's the 10.35.97.2 address).
You don't want this Ethernet wire plugged in if you are trying to get a wireless connection to the cRIO going.

It also looks like your wireless connection is set to 164.254.85.204, so you must change your laptop wireless connection to a static IP address of 10.35.97.9 in order to talk through the router to the cRIO.
The DLink for the robot does not use IP addresses in the range 164.x.x.x, so it looks as though the wireless is auto-connecting to a different nearby router and getting a DHCP address from that.

Cable the cRIO directly to the router.

Lastly, you must search for "dlink" or "3597" on the wireless networks broadcasting in your immediate vicinity. I've attached an example of how to look for available wireless networks. On the task bar look for the wireless icon (this one has a yellow marker on it).
If it shows you connected to another wireless network, then disconnect from that first.