Just because a picture is worth some number of words;
http://www.supermotors.net/registry/media/175395_1
and a connector diagram;
http://www.supermotors.net/registry/media/175387_1
These both appear to be for a 2000, but from what I can tell it should still be applicable.
Also, I came across
this diagram of a CV fuel pump wiring. It's not clear what year it is for but I expect the mid 90's to 2003 were all pretty similar. It does include the 'prime connector', which is just an easier way of bypassing the relay. If it's present on yours it might be a good place to watch the relays behavior, and an easier way to bypass it temporarily.
Incidentally, the electrical wiring diagrams would be found in a specific Ford manual. In this case, FCS-12118-01 (where the last two digits appear to be a year code, so 01 for 2001). They're out there in printed form, though I have no idea if the electronic manual you ordered will have the same information or not.
Good Luck!