
10-03-2015, 17:41
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 FRC #1257 (Parallel Universe)
Team Role: Mentor
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Join Date: Apr 2014
Rookie Year: 2010
Location: United States
Posts: 51
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Re: Tying back hair in the pits at competition
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Originally Posted by Libby K
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-Slightly-off-topic rant-
Something that hasn't been touched on in this thread that's really important:
Don't EVER touch someone's hair, body, clothes, etc without their permission. (Unless they're about to get in caught in something, or there's an imminent danger. Then, obviously, save them.)
My team was just talking about this over the weekend. I've had students/mentors on other teams, but most often Safety Advisors, grab my long hair and start to hold it back, while I'm simply standing there in the pit - yelling at me to tie my hair back. Dude, seriously? There's nothing happening right now where my hair is going to get me hurt. I've seen it happen to others, and it's happened to me, both as a student and an adult mentor.
It's a serious invasion of personal space, which is something I've noticed our community is sometimes pretty bad at (mascots, 'free hugs', etc.), and it has to stop. It is not your 'right' as Team XYZ's safety captain - and especially not as an event volunteer - to, in any way, get into a team member's physical space in the name of safety.
Talk to them about it. Use your words. Keep boundaries well-respected.
Slightly-off-topic rant over. Continue discussion.
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Thank you for saying this. Some of my students and I have encountered this as well.
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