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Re: Changing a culture of cynicism

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Originally Posted by matthewdenny View Post
Our competition season recently came and went with the Buckeye Regional in Cleveland (Congrats to the Winners). During the course of the competition I witnessed a culture in my team that both irritates and befuddles me. It has been constant since our inception as a team in 2012. Until this year though I didn't recognize it for what it is: Cynicism.

Almost all members of our team exhibit this quality. They never allow themselves to be excited about pretty much anything... ever. When other teams cheer and yell, they sit and observe. When theres mascots dancing with people in a corridor, they detour around. When people stand and cheer at awards presentations, they might give a golf clap.

I talked about this with my upperclassmen Friday night, and here's what I got from them (I will paraphrase their quotes).

-"If I don't get excited, I can't get disappointed"

I've thought about the nature of cynicism over the last few days, and I think it stems from the general feelings of hopelessness, mistrust that is prevalent in our student population. Being in rural Appalachian Ohio has (I infer from them) has a lot to do with this. Granted, at times it can be a bit depressing in an economic way, but I don't see it the same way they do.

MY question... how do I change this? I think the world can be an amazing place for a bright kid, and FIRST is the exact type of thing that they should feel safe to give in to vulnerability that comes with excitement. How can I overcome this culture of cynicism and let them feel free to enjoy the ride?

As a note: If you are on a team that has got a cold shoulder from someone on our team, I'm deeply sorry.
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Mathew...You keep smiling! You will go far young man. And, you personally...Have nothing to be sorry about. Especially about having fun, as fun is what every student in FIRST should have being able to do what you are doing in FIRST together! (In my day, we made sheetmetal personal tool boxes, screwdrivers, hammers, cuttingboards, and lamps in woodshop & metal shop!)

But, we had fun doing it too. And we learned what tools were...We made them, & or a box to hold them in. When my dear mother passed away a few years back...I found those 3~4 cutting boards still in use in her kitchen, and some of those tools I personally crafted some 40 years ago in school, as I cleaned out her home.

Tell your team repeatedly, to go grab some fun while they still can...Soon enough, the games are going to turn into real work. Turn those frowns upside down.
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