[IronicDeadBird]

Please learn your leadership style. People listen to leaders more then they listen to people pretending to be leaders (not saying you are pretending) so don't let the title compromise your personality.
For example when tested on what kind of leadership style I have (if I can find the link I will bring it up) I got passive introverted leadership. That is to say while someone already posted the picture of the difference between a boss and a leader my natural state when leading isn't holding your hand or bringing you to a destination. I prefer to setup all the information and let someone piece together the lesson. It is less work for me.
That isn't to say this leadership style suits you on 1339 when I was a sophmore there was this certified can of awesome by the name of Tophurious Rex. He ran things classic point man up front leading the charge he took control of situations and he got results.
Both methods work just fine but my method wouldn't work for him and his method didn't work for me. Just figure you out.