Ok maybe i shouldn't act so surprised
Commercial Jets are much safer than cars just think of it that way.
You're less likely to die in a commercial jet than to die getting struck by lightning if that helps any.
And you're much much much less likely to die in a commercial jet than to die in a traffic accident (no matter how good a driver you are)
That said, dying in a plane crash is like winning the lottery, in a sorta bad way
