I feel like I'm running the risk of touching the third rail getting into this but...
Harassment has two definitions, (a third sometimes if a school is involved), the dictionary and legal definition. A quick google search:
Dictionary (From Google search page):
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aggressive pressure or intimidation.
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Legal:
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the act of systematic and/or continued unwanted and annoying actions of one party or a group, including threats and demands.
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Perhaps this will help you both see each other's arguments from the other's perspective.