[pfreivald]

Nobody's going to be scarred for life having heard Sir Will.i.am Blackeye of Pease's coarse language during the robojoust. He shouldn't have said it, the language was inappropriate for the venue, the passion was genuine, and it probably won't happen again.

This is known as a "mistake," and we all make them. Usually quite a few of them a day, well more than we'd like to admit in public.

This particular mistake can be used as a teaching tool--I often tell my students that I don't care whether or not they swear, but I care whether or not they have the ability to turn it off when they need to [One of the larger employers hereabouts will fire you for cursing on the first offense, no matter how long you've worked there. And they're not even a customer service-heavy company]. Because it is my role as a teacher to help them learn the lessons that they need to learn in life, it is therefore inappropriate to swear _in my presence_ and will be treated as a violation of the rules. Not because I personally care--I really, really don't***--but because the skill (both in terms of knowing when not to swear, and being able to turn on the swear filter between brain and mouth) is a good one to learn.

When Sir Will.i.am exhibited a poor mastery level of this particular skill it became a teaching moment as well as an expression of passion, rather than just an expression of passion. It shouldn't have happened and steps should be taken to keep it from happening again, but when it comes to the seething reactions I've seen here and elsewhere, I'll just say the same thing I tell my team members and/or students when something unfortunate happens:

We're all going to die. But probably not today, and probably not from this. There are bigger things to worry about.



***[Keep in mind that the above is coming from a person who learned the "c" word from his mother at a very young age, dropped an "f" bomb at his kindergarten teacher during the first week of school, uses what some people consider swear words ("hell" and "d**m" and sometimes "pissed off") in his classroom without a second thought and has done so for many years because he doesn't consider them swear words, and on some very late nights due to minor injury or incredible frustration has sworn in front of his team--usually at a computer or robot, never at or about a person.]