In a way you are correct. Some people just flat out bashed him. In other ways you are wrong. Many people are trying to help using constructive criticism. Its pretty sad when people take offense to constructive criticism. The whole purpose of constructive criticism is to help point out known flaws and help them.

Although, drawing too much attention to yourself is not a good thing especially when you have nothing to draw towards.

Tytus, most people are trying to help you. Accept what they are saying. Many of these people are very experienced and know what they are talking about. They can help you down the road. Isn't that one of the purposes of these boards? The next time you read a comment about your design, just remember, they are only trying to help and its nothing to be ashamed of.