[Bharat Nain]

After having seen all the discussions on how discussions turn into arguements, and eventually may lead into fights, I decided to help people with specific techniques on HOW to avoid all this. Moreover, I will also show you HOW to make this forum and FIRST a better place. Also will show you HOW to be a better person, and make your life better. I sincerely hope so. There are many things to say:

1) I study human relations deepy, as it intrests me, and hopefully will intrest you too.

2) I study them from books, and take notes, so whatever I say is from those notes, and in many cases, I have no idea from which book I got them, or how... So please dont sue me if I say things directly from a book, tell me and I'll edit the post and give credit to book and its authors.

3) I have tested all the techniques I post. They have worked for me. But I cannot guarantee they will work for you, so please dont sue/critize/whatever.

4) Since I have a whole notebook of stuff on dealing with people, I cant write it all in one day. Therefore, I will post one tip/technique a day, and maybe go in detail with it.

5) It might be boring, might taste bad, might taste like a lecture, but its true. As we go on, things may make more sense to you.

6) If you feel I have said something wrong, please send me a private message . I would greatly appreciate it.

7) Please post to the minimum on this thread. If I put all the techniques in one thread, it will make it easy for you to read thru it, rather than scrolling too much.

8) My first tip starts on my next post .