[Bharat Nain]

The first thing is very basic


We have to understand, that people hold their own opinions and views. Ours may differ, but still, everyone feels that they are right, and telling people condemning doesnt change their view.
Here is an example:

This is from the book : "How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie
This example an example from it, yes I have shortened it:

On May 7, 1931, the most sensational manhunt New York City had ever known had come to its climax. After weeks of search, "Two Gun" Crowley -- the killer, the gunman who didn't smoke or drink -- was at bay., trapped in his sweet heart's apartment on West End Avenue.

One Hundred and fifty policement and detectives laid siege on his top-floor heideaway. They had a very brutal fight. Shots were fired, etc etc. Eventually Crowley was captured.

Now, Crowley NEVER regarded himself as an criminal. Yes, do you think a criminal woudl admit and blame himself/herself that he/she is a criminal. NO. Crowley just said it was Self-Defense. If we look at things from his eyes, he was right, Crowley was not to blame.

Crowley left a note for everyone which said "under my coat is a weary heart, but a kind one -- one that would do nobody any harm."

Thats exactly US. We are human beings and we are like that. So all that I want to say is, we are human beings of our opinions and views. We wont change just because someone said "You're Wrong".

I am leaving it upto you to make sense out of it. Things will make more sense to you in the next tip.
Good Luck
-TeknoBramha