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Originally posted by A. Snodgrass
Zan before you take all the blame on yourself understand that it is also the place of your adult mentors to encourage, teach, and show gracious professionalism. You can't control them and they are supposed to be acting as your role models.
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Amy,
Speaking for both the mentors and the faculty of Oakwood, I add my apologies to the others.
I was the only mentor present for 992. During the matches I was over on the spectator side of the court with the faculty advisor, taking pictures, while one of the parents worked in the pit. Like Zan, I wasn't aware of any problems until they were discussed in this forum. Like Zan, I was mortified by the behavior of a small minority of team members and PARENTS (not the one in the pit). I assure you that the "negative role models" you referred to were not mentors of this team.
As mentors, we are rookies too. My lesson from the scrimmage was the importance of discussing behavior and etiquette with the team in advance, making sure that the message is communicated to any families and friends in attendance, and staying engaged during the competition. I regret that the good behavior of so many was overshadowed by the bad behavior of a few.
Thanks for your understanding.
Mike Hecht (992 Head Mentor).