A lot of discussions have been happening because different people have different believes of their own. And that's fine, as long as you explain what you think, and don't force your opinions on others.
Well, "force" is such a strong, because people are just trying to convince others that they are right, while not realizing both side could be right. So, in the process, people use the argument "I am right because you are wrong", and the discussion went downhill from there.
I've been through this in a thread long time ago, when people had hot-headed discussion about National qualification @ this thread:
As an objective reader, here is my sincere opinions...
So I am not going to go through it again.
I think all it take is a little more listening and less fault picking… and a little toleration and consideration to others about their trouble and frustration… Maybe this will work out if we keep an open mind and accept the different voices.
There is no reason to be offended by anything in this forum... After all, we are just trying to share ideas.
So, before you are going to post a message. Pause for a second, and think: is this really what you want to say, or is this a quick respond fuel by pure impulse after reading a respond?
To people who are new to this place: This people in this forum really do like to share their ideas, and are willing to teach you whatever they know. So take advantage of this... Ask your questions or post your comments, and listen and learn from the responds. I've learned a great deal this way, and so can you.