I used to like doing things my way before FIRST. When I got into robotics, however, I realized that that was stupid and there was NO way whatsoever that we could get everything done if everyone did what I used to do.
I learned that to get something done, one has to have the INITIATIVE. If there is no initiative in an individual or, more importantly, a team, the goal will not be accomplished. People can talk a big game, but unless they start working on what they talk about, nothing will get done.
FIRST also taught me how to stand up for what I believe. When someone doesn't like your design, for example, I've realized that while compromise is good, supporting why your think something would work is equally as good. And at group meetings, I've learned to say what I think could be improved (IMPORTANT: in a non-offensive manner) and to not be scared of what others will think. Everyone has an equal opportunity.
(I'd go on and on. But I gotta go to church now
) FIRST has given me so much knowledge, but ALSO so many qualities that I can apply to my life! That is what is so wonderful about it.