There's always the thought, though, that she may be toying with you, and waiting for you to mess up...
Yup, that's the #1 way to crush a man's spirit
'Going for it' is a big risk, and for some reason, it is vey hard to do. Much harder than bungee jumping: if that goes bad, you lose your life, if this goes bad, you lose...quite a bit of self confidence.

That hurts, espcially if you've been saving it up for a special occasion....
(such as the Nats, or a regional

)