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but wut if its your good friend? And what if by persuing a relationship... you find out that she dosn't like you? And then becomes weirded out by the whole situation and then you grow apart... ? Then it becomes one big mistake... and you're not as confidant anymore..
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I know that when I finally got the guts to ask one of my friends out and he said no we actually got to be better friends because of it because it was out there that I liked him as more then a friend so you have to remember that there are two sides to this sort of occasion so you are better off just going for it
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'Going for it' is a big risk, and for some reason, it is vey hard to do. Much harder than bungee jumping: if that goes bad, you lose your life, if this goes bad, you lose...quite a bit of self confidence. That hurts, espcially if you've been saving it up for a special occasion....
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but if you dont go for it you might lose the love of your life because you are afraid to take a simple risk and that would actually be worse.......I know that i would rather have a guy come right out and ask me out rather than just acting like they like me, but being to afraid of 'going for it'...... that has happened to me and that guy has now lost his chance with me because he was to afraid to ask me out..... so take your chances well you still have them open to you....dont wait forever trying to decide if you should or not