.BIN only needs to be loaded once. Think of it as a patch to your operating system. It doesn't need to be done everytime you start your computer.
Does your MPLAB options window look exactly like this?
http://www.chiefdelphi.com/forums/at...achmentid=2610
Those includes are located by the correct Include Path. You can double-check you have the correct path by cutting it from the Options window and pasting it into Run from your Start menu.
You could try hitting "Suite Defaults" and enter the paths again.