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Re: Why do we think we are better?
Maybe I don't get exactly what this has turned into...
Nobody said that they didn't want to be in FIRST.
All I was originally trying to say can almost be summed up in one example:
Woodie Flowers is the most Graciously Professional guy that I know of, yet he doesn't go around letting every single person know how great he is; he doesn't act the way he does for recognition, He does it because it is the right thing to do.
When someone does something wrong, and then lets you know about it... you shouldn't yell at him because it will make you look better to others, you should quietly guide him in the right direction.
That being said, I have noticed a number of people posting NOT to help the person that is the focus of their post, but to be looked upon as more righteous themselves.
You can see this when someone reprimands someone else openly for doing something wrong, And then Thirty more people say the exact same thing. If it has already been said, then saying it again will only make the person who is the focus feel ganged up upon.
PMing him/her with what you have to say is much less publicly embarrassing to them, and unless you are only posting what you are to get recognition... you should have no problem with it.
NOTE: This thread IS NOT actually about the Soda being smuggled into an arena, but it is about an overall trend Ive been seeing.
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