[Eugenia Gabrielov]

I'd like to second Kim's spectacular argument. I too, had a musical conflict. As a result, I too did not have a very happy band director.

However, I think there's a greater message here: you, as a team member, should not decree what extracurricular activities your teammates participate in. Throwing them into other clubs will not help your image, it will only postpone the work that you need to do to improve it. Do not postpone that work. This is one situation in which you can destroy your team through an effort that you consider a shortcut.