Kim:
I think it's an excellent project for a Gold Award- my sister's in GS, and just got her Bronze Award, and I'm finishing up the final 2 merit badges/last touches on my project for Eagle Scout.
I think an emphasis on what you did in whatever situation you are discussing is very important. Now, tell me if this is how you have it structured. I haven't lost any family members close to me yet (thankfully), but this is what I would do/ want to read:
- Start out with what you did,then go into what was good about it (helped you) and what was bad (didn't help you)
- What you wish you had done differently
- What you recommend they do
That can be modified, as I'm brainstorming from a theoretical point of view, where as you have experienced it and know what you're talking about.
If you need help/a second opinion with anything else, just let me know.
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2010 NJ Regional Champions (w/ 25 and 3059), 2010 VA Regional Champions (w/ 1086 & 1418)
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