[GaryVoshol]

Remember there is a difference between yelling and shouting. Sometimes during the din of a competition, voices have to be raised just to be heard.

Also some people's voices are just naturally harsh. I recall one soccer coach I know with a gravelly voice. Whenever he raised his voice to be heard, it sounded bad. But I very rarely saw Coach Tom mad - you just knew he was going to be loud.

That's why talking to the other mentor is important - you may have misunderstood his tone, and he may not realize he is upsetting others.