katie, i'm so sorry about your grandmother. that is a really hard thing to go thru, at your age especiallly. i don't know about a creamation, but i think it will be hard no matter what...but you will get thru it.
i think this is very normal for a lot of people
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It was a major shock when he died. I went to the funeral and did nothing. I wasn't happy. I wasn't sad. I wasn't mad. I feel ashamed for feeling that way. I eventually got over it.
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and you shouldn't feel ashamed about how you feel, how ever that is, Jnadke, everyone deals with grief differently. me.. i bawl like a baby. but that's the way i am about anything that touches my heart. but i always feel better after i get it all out. i also believe it is very healthy to get the emotions out. other people feel embarrased to cry.
katie, i will say a prayer for you and your family in this most difficult time. and remember your grandma is in a wonderful place!