[Kristina]

i'm probably one of those overshadowing silbings you speak of

i think my brother gets frustrated when my parents always compare him to me and when all his teachers ask if he's "Kristina's little brother." But he still excels in many many many areas that I don't...mainly: science, art, sports, music, etc.

just talk to your dad about it though, i'm sure he doesn't mean this and once you tell him he'll watch what he says. and also find your own niche.