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Originally posted by Judy
hmmmm questions eh Ben? ... hmm... K, I know you guys are really into the chick asking, but the fact is, for all my flirtatiousness and outgoingness, when it comes down to it I am so so so shy! So my question to you is, if we really can't bring ourselves to ask... how do we get you to?
I know guys are really dumb and can't take a hint at all(believe me!!!!) but is there something that I can do that you will actually get???
*hugz to all as alwayz*
Ann-Marie -team 783
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Hmm...well, you could always strike up a conversation, and let it develop from that. The direct approach is good though, because it shows you're interested, and that you care.
Girls are at perhaps a distinct advantage, in that a direct approach is both uncommon, and impressive. Girls can use direct or unique approaches without embarrassment, since a failed attempt can be considered cute, and intentional.
Just go for it. Personally, just show that you have a charming personality, and then go for it. Finding someone special is an important part of life. Without one, (or at least, the hope of one in my case) I don't know how people survive!
Take the chance. Believe me, he's probably thinking the same thing, and is probably just as shy as you are. Guys may pretend to be macho, but really, a lot of us (well, at least me) are kittens hiding under the laundry when it comes to initiating a romance. And if she has a boyfriend or whatever, he’ll probably just let it drop, and talk about something else entirely.
This reminds me: I'm a post-a-holic, without an avatar or a photo! What do you gals think would b e a better avatar, a picture of an oak tree in a stained glass window, a picture of a meadow in twilight, or a picture of a hillside?
I'm kinda leaning towards the oak tree at this point: its a really neat picture, and I like nature stuff, such as long walks in the country, watching the sun setting, gazing up at a full moon, listening the waves lap against the seashore...
Uh, where was I?
