NERD: Good, or bad???

[synth3tk]

Originally Posted by EricH

Dictionary definition has very little to do with connotation.
Dictionary definition has even less to do with context.
Connotation is not defined by nerds, but by everybody.
Non-nerds will have a different-ish definition of the word "nerd"--defined by connotation.

Incidentally, if I were to call synth3tk a particular term, I'd expect him to be pretty mad at me. If he were to call me that same term, I'd probably figure it as a compliment, or him calling me a friend. (Term not stated for various reasons--including me not wanting to have him mad at me.) One word, two different connotations, both depending on context and who's actually saying it.

So, if a nerd-type (there are many) calls someone a nerd, it can be seen as a compliment. If a jock-type calls someone a nerd, it's probably an insult. If a jock-type calls someone a jock, it's probably a compliment. But if a nerd-type calls someone a jock, it's probably not complimentary.

Context and connotation are key to determining whether a word is good or bad. "Nerd" has a negative connotation--unless someone who is a nerd-type calls you one. Same for "jock". Clear?

Debating has never been my strong point. Was just trying to argue my point the best way I could.

I guess what I'm trying to say is, while we may be fine with being called nerds, saying that FIRST is for nerds will sound negative to the huge chunk of the very people we're trying to attract.