Dating Tips

[Greg Perkins]

*sniff, sniff* ewwwww whats that smell, o yea its my brain frying, looks like i need to get a new pair of brain boxers now.





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[Amanda M]

Originally posted by badjokeguy
soo... u are the "amanda" who one of the kids on our team thought u were stalking, i met u in the arcade that night at nationals...


bad

Hey! I was not stalking him! He was stalking me! So ! Ha! Anyways, I don't think he really cared, man. He's still my buddy.

And personally I think that if it was the girl who had the dirty mind, then the guys wouldn't mind, because most of them have their minds in the gutter anyhow. I could be wrong, but for the most part, I don't think so

[Amy Beth]

guys....just act like a complete fool. She thinks you're crazy anyway; let her know you are crazy about her.

girls.....don't make him act like a fool.

[Dave_222]

Originally posted by Amy Beth
guys....just act like a complete fool. She thinks you're crazy anyway; let her know you are crazy about her.

girls.....don't make him act like a fool.

Does being crazy in general count? cuz i am not exactly "balanced".

[Mike Schroeder]

okay i got a question




Is Breaking out in random bouts of White Boy Dancing Okay,

What about random hugs

or Pokes
?????????



ahhh to many questions

[purpledaisy]

well... dancing, probably ok, but it depends on the girl.
random hugs ~ usually only if you know her well or a well known to be a huggy person.
random pokes ~ can be dangerous. be prepared to duck after the first time, she may not like it. Personally, it's alright as long as it's not ALL the time.
I hope you guys don't mind my random posts...
Stacia

[Amanda M]

Originally posted by "Big Mike"
[color=darkblue]okay i got a question
Is Breaking out in random bouts of White Boy Dancing Okay,

What about random hugs

or Pokes

White boy dancing? How... interesting... I think so. Of course, I am kind of a nut, so I think the weirdest things are interesting... And dancing is fun! So, no problem there!

Poking.... I know that as long as you are doing it in a "nice" way, I won't care, but people poke me really hard sometimes and I bruise... Not fun.

And random hugs are really happy. Or. at least in my book.

[Ricky Q.]

Randomness is the key to life well maybe not, but its fun to have those random moments sometimes, I keep them a daily part of my life, to make my self and others laugh

[Amy Beth]

/me hugs her teddy bear randomly, looks away, and whistles

What i don't get is guys who ask you a question like "Do girls like it when guys talk about...."themselves"?" "Do girls like random hugs and pokes?" "Do girls like it when guys pay on dates?" and then the guy expects they can get an answer that will always help them no matter the situation. Um...sorry, no. Me, personally, i love random hugs, but i have pinned guys to the ground for randomly poking me. But, i mean, if you like poking girls randomly, i'm sure there is a pokable soulmate for you out there somewhere. It's not about what girls in general like, but what your specific girl likes, and if you take the time to find that out, she will appreciate it. Really.

[purpledaisy]

I agree, Amy. Some girls LOVE being hugged and tickled, etc. Some girls HATE it. It depends on the girl, and if you try to date someone before you find things like that out (if they're important to you), that's, bluntly, stupid. don't jump into dating until you know the person well. I set a 1 month waiting period before my current boyfriend could ask me out. Granted, it wasn't just to wait, there were other reasons, but I (and he) am really glad I did that. We know each other alot better than we would have before, and it's helped alot. Now, because we know each other well, and care alot about each other, we can work through the arguements that naturally come up. Also, if she's having a bad day and snaps at you, don't take it too personally. I know that when I do that, I usually end up 5 minutes later practically crying on his shoulder. It is reasonable (I think) to expect an apology, and possibly an explanation, but if she doesn't want to talk about it, don't push (unless you know her well enough to know she needs to talk it out). Anyway, that's just my two cents.
thanks for listening!
Stacia

[Katie Reynolds]

Going back to the hugging/tickling/poking thing ... like Amy and Stacia said - it really depends on the girl! For me, I don't mind hugs but I hate it when most people poke or tickle me. I just generally don't like people touching me (especially my arms and back for some reason.) I've had guy friends get mad at me for yelling at them for touching me! Usually, it's nothing personal, just some people, both guys and girls, don't like being touched (for whatever reason.)

It is reasonable (I think) to expect an apology, and possibly an explanation, but if she doesn't want to talk about it, don't push (unless you know her well enough to know she needs to talk it out).

Exactly! I think that's true for both sexes too. If the other person doesn't want to talk about it, just let it be. Maybe they're still upset about whatever happened, don't know how to say it or just want to keep it to themselves. Just because you're together or really close friends doesn't mean you have to tell each other everything! Anyway, back to writing my history paper ()

- Katie

[Greg Perkins]

o i guess i am guilty of all 3 of those we just mentioned, although i dont intend to be malicious about it . also, i do it as from a sweetness perspective, i wont go up randomly to Ammy, and "jump start" her, ill prolly get decked, but i dont do that, i usually go for a shoulder or the belly poke/nudge.

Yea, so im a sweet single male, uh... im me? lol


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[MarkF]

Random pokes are my signature. However, I have found that if a girl doesn't like it, she'll probably say something, and that's that. You have to know where and when to draw the line.
As for the radom hugs....nah. Hugs are good, but as far as I'm concerned, only with people you know well enough. My girlfriend is the recipient of daily, multiple random pokes, but she doesn't mind, because we know each other, as earlier posted *winks at purpledaisy*, extremely well. I finish alot of her sentences for her, too. ;-)

[Johca_Gaorl]

Originally posted by MarkF
I finish alot of her sentences for her, too. ;-)

Hehe, my g/f and I do that too, it can be scary.

[Katie_269]

These are things that I think are most important:

1) Long Distance Relationships are HARD!!!! I KNOW
2) Don't do anything you don't want to.
3) Talking helps a lot.
4) Be yourself, NO MATTER WHAT!!!
5) Give hugs, and maybe kisses if you are close.
6) No means No
7) Be sure of your feelings.
8) Have fun

Katelyn