sorry to bother you again for advice, but...

[purpledaisy]

I have a problem that I'm afraid to approach, because I don't want to cause a team rift.
See, a girl on my team hates my b/f, and tells me so every time I see her. I've tried to tell her that I don't want to hear it, and if she has a problem with him, talk to him. She doesn't listen, and gets mad at me for refusing to intervene. (This is after flipping out at me for something she says he did). Any suggestions on how to make her shut up without causing a team rift?

sorry to be bothering people with my personal problems, but i'm at my wits end, and can't really ask anyone here, as they don't understand the team's dynamics.

thanks a ton!
stacia