How do you handle PDA on your team?

[jwallace15]

Originally Posted by BugByte

I used to have boyfriend on the team. I'm wondering what everyone defines as PDA. He occasionally held my hand at dinner and we sat together in the stands. I feel that that level was appropriate and I don't think anyone had a problem with it.

This is my team's definition of PDA from our code of conduct:
"In order to insure a professional environment on the team, the team will not allow any forms of PDA while a team member is representing the team. Hand Holding, Kissing, and sitting with arms around each other are all examples of PDA. We intend to keep the robotics program a professional one and this will not be tolerated. NOTE: This includes when a team member is in uniform away from the team. A team member represents the team while in uniform and must conduct themselves as a professional."

On our team, holding hands at dinner would be a no-no. But there would be no problem sitting with your significant other in the stands (as long as you don't have arms around each other, aren't cuddling, and aren't sharing a blanket, etc.). Our advisor's definition of appropriateness is "A high-five, handshake or fist-bump.". I personally feel that what you did was appropriate, but don't take my word for it; I'd consult your team's rules.