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[Reed B.]

How we can't judge your emotions worth a dang.

[FotoPlasma]

Just for the record, I'm not a female.

Is there anything really general you could tell me about common behaviors, feelings, and thoughts?

If I ever come up with a specific question, I'll be sure to ask it here, but until then, I'll take any information you can give me...

well sometimes we will test guys to see if they really care about us like i once acted upset as if something he said hurt me and i walked/ran away if he really liked me he would follow and of course that was what i wanted him to do
we are really sencative so if you say something that could be taken in a bad way then sometimes we will think you ment it in the bad

we tend to play hard to get alot so some girls will not tell you that they like you unless they are alone or ready to so you have to be pashent but like me some girls dont play hard to get and tell a friend to tell a guy that they like them to see what the guys reaction is

oops sorry forgot to use spell check

[Reed B.]

Answer me this then:
How come if we say you're a nice person for a while, and then one day say you're pretty, you suddenly act as if the only thing we've ever said to you is "I think you look nice"?

[Katie Reynolds]

Originally posted by angier314
well sometimes we will test guys to see if they really care about us like i once acted upset as if something he said hurt me and i walked/ran away if he really liked me he would follow and of course that was what i wanted him to do

... If you say so.

Why on earth would you do something like that?

- Katie

[Madison]

Originally posted by angier314
well sometimes we will test guys to see if they really care about us like i once acted upset as if something he said hurt me and i walked/ran away if he really liked me he would follow and of course that was what i wanted him to do

That is manipulative, passive-aggressive, weak, childish, and incredibly lousy. If there is any question about whether someone cares about you, you already have a large, damaging problem.

Should you introduce this variable into the equation - such that whomever you date has to be on edge and consider the true motivation of your actions, reactions, and emotions, you're an amazingly callous, selfish person who, in my opinion, should reevaluate your outlook on others.

Wow. I'm floored. Lives aren't meant to be toyed with. Grow up.

[DanLevin247]

egahd M.


Does it ever end with the belittlement?

[Bob Merkel]

Well, I do find it kind of annoying of how I can be stereotyped by some girls for the actions and thoughts of my friends.

[Madison]

Originally posted by DanLevin247
egahd M.


Does it ever end with the belittlement?

If that's what you consider belittlement, I'm sorry. It's my honest opinion and contribution to the thread. I don't have to like everyone that posts here. I don't have to agree with them. I don't have to agree to disagree.

In my opinion, that attitude is selfish, callous, and mean. I would write the same thing about anyone who posted that.

Respect from me is something that you earn, not something that you lose. What that means to any individual is not at my discretion.

If Angier314 feels bad, I'm sorry, but maybe that's what it'll take to get them to reexamine how they treat other people. I won't ever stand by and watch people get mistreated in such ways - on these forums, others, or in the real world. If Angier314 doesn't care, they don't care. Whatever. It's not really relevant. People that treat others with respect deserve to be treated in kind. In my mind, it's that simple.

I never write anything with any intention of insulting someone else. I never write without seeing that there could be some potential benefit that arises from it.

Sorry. Humiliation doesn't work on me.

[DanLevin247]

Originally posted by M. Krass

Sorry. Humiliation doesn't work on me.

If you thought I was trying to humiliate you, you have been mistaken. Just remember, think before you speak . You don't need to worry about other people's problems if they aren't going to listen to your opinion...correct?

[Ryan Dognaux]

Originally posted by M. Krass
People that treat others with respect deserve to be treated in kind. In my mind, it's that simple.

^ Exactly what I was thinking. Guys, if you like a girl that has no respect for you or herself, just forget it, You're better off without her even though she'd be better off with you. And Girls, please refrain from breaking a guy's heart - If you commit to a relationship, do just that - commit.

[Marc P.]

M. Krass- I wholeheartedly agree. Manipulation is probably one of the worst things in the world in general, nevermind an individual relationship. I've been in a relationship where it was exactly as angier said- it was extremely childish, disrespectful, and made me feel worse than hell. She would run away, pretending I hurt her (example- we were at the mall, I asked her if I could stop into radio shack to pick up some rechargeable batteries- she yelled at me for disrespecting her by not doing what she wanted to do, as we proceeded to walk into all the stores that peaked her interest), yell at me for the littlest things, she hated FIRST with a passion, and cheated on me with more people than I can count, all the while expecting me to stand there and maintain any sort of feeling for her. For a very short time, I was just happy to have anyone. I would ride my bike 10 to get from my house to her house. When I told her my feelings for her were in jeopardy by what she was doing, she got pissed off, kicked me, and ran away, with a very snide tone of voice, expecting me to follow and apologize with chocolates and roses. For 9 months I was stupid enough to do so, fearing heartbreak and lonliness, until I realized she was doing more damage to my heart than solitude could ever do. Needless to say, she pestered me with insulting emails, kicking me in the hallway at school, and badmouthing me to everyone she talked to. If that's not the definition of childish, callus, and lousy, I don't know what is. M. Krass- right on, keep posting your opinions, odds are, there's enough people on this forum that many will agree.

i just want to say that i am only saying what some girls do i am not a mean person and i dont act that way anymore i am only 15 and i dont really know much about dating so please dont think i dont care about guys feelings i do alot i am sorry if what i did/ said was wrong i was in 7th grade when i did that

[Marc P.]

On a side note, what happened to punctuation?