Dealing with Disappointment

[MysterE]

Originally Posted by Carolyn_Grace

2. One way that helps with dealing with my own team's disappointment is actually having an abundance of friends on so many teams. A direct example of this is this past weekend's Michigan State Championship event. I had very dear friends on every alliance that played in the semi-finals. No one picks a team because they are friends, we all "play to win," and that often leads to us competing against each other. This turns into a win-win situation. Yes, we all want our individual teams to win, and we will play our heart out to make that happen, but at the end of the day, if my team doesn't win, it is still extremely rewarding to see the tears of joy in my friends' faces as they celebrate with their teams. Friendship takes away some of the sting of losing.

I think, out of much of the advice given, that this one hits me the most. As much as I like the words Gracious Professionalism, I think it is more valuable to me when I can demonstrate Gracious Friendship. Professionalism is difficult sometimes, but it seems much easier when the person you are watching get their medal is someone that you know. Every year I develop new connections and greater friendships with FIRSTers - and every year I am surprised to find just how many amazing people there are here.